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Forum: Single Parenting   05-14-2015, 01:41 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 244
Posted By mamapajama
my ds will be "best man" at his dad's wedding

Currently wishing I had thought of this when I wrote my parenting plan. ha!


I am having a very difficult time not telling my almost 13 year old ds that being his dad's best man for his wedding...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-13-2015, 11:48 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 239
Posted By mamapajama
no coparenting, completely diff rules and my teen son

I may cross post to teen forum too.
Forum: Preteens and Teens   05-13-2015, 08:02 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 362
Posted By mamapajama
my almost 13 year old is girl crazy!! omg!

Hi!
Well my ds will be 13 in July and he's bigger than me and of course he thinks he knows everything. Just when I think I have it all figured out, here come the girls....they love him. He's cute...
Forum: Mental Health   04-29-2015, 09:02 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 243
Posted By mamapajama
Depression and when to medicate

I am struggling.


4 years ago after losing my baby, and my husband, who left me because he couldn't stand how depressed I was, I finally went on an anti depressant (Effexor)


I went from a...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-14-2014, 10:17 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 717
Posted By mamapajama
I'm actually pretty happy with how things turned...

I'm actually pretty happy with how things turned out relationship wise. My marraige was very bad in the last couple years.
I just miss my kids. Reconciling that has been and is so hard.
I would...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-14-2014, 09:40 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 717
Posted By mamapajama
Thanks! (: My ex would fight me tooth and nail...

Thanks! (:
My ex would fight me tooth and nail to keep me from homeschooling.
He already wants me to change their school because it's "alternative"
When he left he completely changed his life and...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-13-2014, 08:08 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 717
Posted By mamapajama
"I think it's also knowing that I have to do this...

"I think it's also knowing that I have to do this for their entire childhood, and really their lives. I can't raise them the way I had hoped for/imagined, and I definitely mourn that loss sometimes,...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-13-2014, 07:33 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 717
Posted By mamapajama
Struggling with missing my kids

Hi folks!

Divorced mama here with two boys 9 and 11. I do have primary custody and the boys see their dad every other weekend fri to sun eve, every tues overnight and thurs for a few hours. So...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-13-2014, 07:22 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 723
Posted By mamapajama
I love that. Although I still feel like my...

I love that.
Although I still feel like my family is broken. A lot of is about attitude. (;
Forum: Single Parenting   02-25-2013, 11:51 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 7,933
Posted By mamapajama
Oh what wonderful advice!!!!' I'm running to...

Oh what wonderful advice!!!!'
I'm running to work but I have a lot to say this eve.
Thank you mamas!!!!!'
Forum: Single Parenting   02-22-2013, 08:27 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 7,933
Posted By mamapajama
Thanks mamas! I did talk to my lawyer and he is...

Thanks mamas! I did talk to my lawyer and he is in violation of the parenting plan. He has outright refused to let me talk to my 8 year old since Monday. His phone is off. He turns it on just long...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-21-2013, 08:22 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 7,933
Posted By mamapajama
Hi mamas, Been a long time since I've been...

Hi mamas,

Been a long time since I've been here on mothering. I am hopeful some of you mamas have some ideas for me.
Long story short: my ex-husband is a classic narcissist and he lives to feel...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-31-2012, 08:02 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,137
Posted By mamapajama
Thank you for the advice.  Actually the ROFR is...

Thank you for the advice.  Actually the ROFR is what our negotiations fell apart over.  That and he somehow thinks he was a 50/50 parent for ten years even though I was a stay at home homeschooling...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-29-2012, 09:01 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,137
Posted By mamapajama
His lawyer advised him not to sign a right of...

His lawyer advised him not to sign a right of first refusal.  He doesn't want to communicate at all with me.  He doesn't feel like he should have to tell me anything about what he does when he has...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-29-2012, 11:54 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,137
Posted By mamapajama
Hi! yes he lives about ten miles away from me...

Hi!
yes he lives about ten miles away from me and more than that from boys school. In a one bedroom apartment.  The kids sleep on the living room floor.  Sometimes they sleep on his girlfriend's...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-29-2012, 08:38 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,137
Posted By mamapajama
I was a stay at home homeschooling mom for 9...

I was a stay at home homeschooling mom for 9 years, until my ex left me and the kids almost a year ago.  For the first 6 months he came around a couple times a week and would take the kids overnight...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-04-2012, 07:49 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 560
Posted By mamapajama
Hi!   I'm new to this forum, but not MDC. ...

Hi!
 
I'm new to this forum, but not MDC.  It's interesting I find myself here.  I am on the verge of legal divorce.  A very contentious one.  My dh left last April.  He left me with my two little...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-18-2011, 08:42 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 586
Posted By mamapajama
He did set up a support plan with me for the...

He did set up a support plan with me for the next 6 months.  I have talked to one lawyer who was a jerk and told me to put my kids in school and get a job. I have recommendations for two more.  It...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-18-2011, 08:09 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 586
Posted By mamapajama
Hello, This is my first time on this forum. ...

Hello,
This is my first time on this forum.  My husband of ten years and partner of 16 years has moved out leaving me, a homeschooling, stay at home mom of 9 years.  I have two boys ages 8 and 6. ...
Forum: Pregnancy and Birth Loss   03-26-2011, 01:46 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 120
Posted By mamapajama
Hi mamas,   I haven't been here in awhile. ...

Hi mamas,
 
I haven't been here in awhile.  But it has been a year since I found out I lost my baby girl at our 19 week ultrasound.  Over that year we tried for 8 months to get pregnant again, and...
Forum: Pregnancy and Birth Loss   02-17-2011, 04:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 294
Posted By mamapajama
We lost our third child at 19 weeks.  I have two...

We lost our third child at 19 weeks.  I have two boys age 6 and 8.  The baby I lost was a girl.  We tried for 8 months after my loss to get pregnant again. Even though I conceived with all three...
Forum: The Childhood Years   01-16-2011, 09:30 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 200
Posted By mamapajama
My ds who is 6 has been having nightmares...

My ds who is 6 has been having nightmares periodically (a couple times a month) for the last year or so that involve different scenarios where I (mom) leave him places, let him get kidnapped, let...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   01-04-2011, 12:31 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 156
Posted By mamapajama
ooops xposting this accidentally posted in the...

ooops xposting this accidentally posted in the wrong forum.  I meant it for here.......SO:
 
 
 
Just because it came up on another thread, I wanted to throw that stupid phrase out there.  In...
Forum: Personal Growth   01-04-2011, 12:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,908
Posted By mamapajama
Ooops I meant to post this on TAO forum. 

Ooops I meant to post this on TAO forum. 
Forum: Personal Growth   01-04-2011, 12:04 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,908
Posted By mamapajama
Just because it came up on another thread, I...

Just because it came up on another thread, I wanted to throw that stupid phrase out there.  In other countries, the saying changes and you hear things like " A daughter is born facing outwards"...
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