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Forum: Single Parenting   07-18-2011, 01:24 PM
Replies: 76
Views: 3,826
Posted By vannienicole
I suggest as others id that you talk to your...

I suggest as others id that you talk to your lawyer about your rights.  Whether she even can move with the baby if you contest if she stays to have the baby in St. Louis.  What your options are...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-10-2011, 04:58 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,640
Posted By vannienicole
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Quote:Originally Posted by plum tree http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/thread/1316591/2-2-3-schedule#post_16492597)


So one...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-09-2011, 01:53 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,640
Posted By vannienicole
We follow the 2/2/3 schedule.  It helps though...

We follow the 2/2/3 schedule.  It helps though to have certain days that are mine and days that are his.  We plan activities around that and the kids feel confident about where they are going.  This...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-15-2011, 05:16 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 447
Posted By vannienicole
Not without consent of both the parent giving up...

Not without consent of both the parent giving up custody and the parent retaining custody.  Don't forget that with adoption comes child support.
Forum: Single Parenting   03-07-2011, 07:57 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,794
Posted By vannienicole
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Forum: Single Parenting   03-03-2011, 10:16 PM
Replies: 276
Views: 20,810
Posted By vannienicole
One note about facebook.  He can unblock you...

One note about facebook.  He can unblock you whenever he wants. Please take the extra step and block him as well.  Just add his email into the block page.  That way, when he tries to weasel back in,...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-03-2011, 07:28 AM
Replies: 276
Views: 20,810
Posted By vannienicole
Oh and get him blocked on FB.  Block him on your...

Oh and get him blocked on FB.  Block him on your son's too.  Whether or not you think he won't contact you again, protect your son from it please.  I am so glad to see such a positive update. 
Forum: Frugality & Finances   02-18-2011, 08:44 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,110
Posted By vannienicole
Congrats on the pregnancy!     So I wasn't...

Congrats on the pregnancy!  
 
So I wasn't accepted into grad school.....time to formulate a new plan.  Taxes were deposited today.  Now to not touch it til I figure out what to do with it all.  I...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-09-2011, 03:51 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 986
Posted By vannienicole
Yes, final a temporary order of support...

Yes, final a temporary order of support immediately.  That was one of the biggest things I should have done but didn't.
Forum: Frugality & Finances   02-09-2011, 11:35 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 3,132
Posted By vannienicole
Okay, so still $0 in CC debt.  I owe about $2000...

Okay, so still $0 in CC debt.  I owe about $2000 to my divorce lawyer but will pay that off with taxes.  I am fighting a couple debts due to medical bills/paperwork/insurance.  All that is left is...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   02-09-2011, 11:32 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,110
Posted By vannienicole
Things are extremely tight ($13 to my name!...

Things are extremely tight ($13 to my name! Woohoo!) but we are pulling though it. I get paid on Friday and taxes should be back in the next week or so.  Then I can pay off my lawyer, fix my car and...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   02-08-2011, 11:37 PM
Replies: 180
Views: 15,409
Posted By vannienicole
Thank you, Habitat. 

Thank you, Habitat. 
Forum: Single Parenting   02-07-2011, 10:10 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,550
Posted By vannienicole
Our lawyers once left us in a lobby together...

Our lawyers once left us in a lobby together while they talked.  After I yelled from the lobby to the office for my lawyer and another lawyer was about to step in to stop him, they didn't make that...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-05-2011, 09:39 PM
Replies: 276
Views: 20,810
Posted By vannienicole
bananabee, I think you have a perfect plan. ...

bananabee, I think you have a perfect plan.  Love it.
 
OP, this is what my supposed best friend/ex-sometimes boyfriend does to me.  (Yeah, follow that one.)  He pulls me in with the world and...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   02-04-2011, 11:35 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,389
Posted By vannienicole
I will be using part of it to pay off my divorce...

I will be using part of it to pay off my divorce lawyer http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/joy.gif
 
I haven't decided about the other $1300.  I am thinking pay for my course this semester...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-04-2011, 08:10 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,540
Posted By vannienicole
I still don't understand why someone on Section...

I still don't understand why someone on Section 8 has a housekeeper.  This is coming from someone on major benefits too.  I've never understood this.
Forum: Single Parenting   02-03-2011, 09:05 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 941
Posted By vannienicole
I left before starting the process and wish I...

I left before starting the process and wish I had been as prepared as you are.  Seeing a counselor is always a great step just for your own well being.  What got me through the insanity of a year...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-03-2011, 09:00 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 431
Posted By vannienicole
My thoughts are with you both too!

My thoughts are with you both too!
Forum: Frugality & Finances   02-01-2011, 09:46 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 7,907
Posted By vannienicole
zebra, i'd hold off on using it at first.  Just...

zebra, i'd hold off on using it at first.  Just give them a call and ask.  you don't want to owe them money later for their error, right?
 
It's coldcoldcold here.  City is shut down and will be...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-31-2011, 11:18 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 7,907
Posted By vannienicole
Ugh.  Another snow day.  So no school tomorrow...

Ugh.  Another snow day.  So no school tomorrow and possibly Wednesday.  Down one more sub shift.  Going to take the day to relax with the kids since the whole state is shut down for the little bit...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-29-2011, 10:45 AM
Replies: 109
Views: 7,907
Posted By vannienicole
Schedule this week:   Tonight: 4 hours lab ...

Schedule this week:
 
Tonight: 4 hours lab
Sunday: 12 hours lab
Monday: 1/2 day sub, 4 hours lab
Tuesday: full day sub
Wed: 4 hours lab (still trying to pick up a sub shift that day)
Thurs: ...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-27-2011, 08:39 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 7,907
Posted By vannienicole
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Quote:Originally Posted by zebra15 http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-27-2011, 07:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,862
Posted By vannienicole
Never use a child as a pawn in your relationship...

Never use a child as a pawn in your relationship with another person. 
 
As far as the way he treats you, other moms will have much more advice on how to stand up to that.  You admit that you want...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-26-2011, 09:44 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,097
Posted By vannienicole
Just a heads up to all those saying the...

Just a heads up to all those saying the opposite: My state refuses to accept online courses for the work/school requirement for childcare as well.  That's just one of the rules.
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-26-2011, 09:41 AM
Replies: 109
Views: 7,907
Posted By vannienicole
Subbed yesterday (1/2 day...$27 dollars made)...

Subbed yesterday (1/2 day...$27 dollars made) and have a job for tomorrow.  Spending the day locked in my lab will definitely help. 
 
Crossing my fingers that the ex pays CS on time and maybe a...
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