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Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-02-2011, 08:51 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 724
Posted By victoriasmommy86
when we set up the agreement. I suggest $100 a...

when we set up the agreement.
I suggest $100 a week and 1 hour of visitation twice a week.
He agreed to the hours with DD but negotiated down to $75 a week for the CS. I didn't make a fuss b/c I...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-02-2011, 07:56 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 724
Posted By victoriasmommy86
ty Jeannine & everyone else!   We are in the...

ty Jeannine & everyone else!
 
We are in the Bahamas so things are kinda just whatever social services recommends for each case and what they personally feel like.
 
Ex didnt pay any child...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-30-2011, 10:44 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 724
Posted By victoriasmommy86
Ex says the amount of $ he pays in support is...

Ex says the amount of $ he pays in support is too much because he doesn't get that much access.
I could really do without the support. its kinda a drop in the bucket. I've been saving it in a bank...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-23-2011, 12:06 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,264
Posted By victoriasmommy86
don't try too hard.. my DD almost 4... is...

don't try too hard..
my DD almost 4... is borderline rude to her great grand mother...
and my brother..
and with ex.
Its hard to discipline shy/rude.
She is shy but I feel like she can sense...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-23-2011, 11:48 AM
Replies: 189
Views: 15,882
Posted By victoriasmommy86
   Quote:Originally Posted by...



 
Quote:Originally Posted by 1stTimeMama4-4-10 http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-22-2011, 01:29 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,012
Posted By victoriasmommy86
ty for the response. She has not yet been to...

ty for the response.
She has not yet been to his house!
It is my desire that when she does, it be a comfortable place for her. I already told ex perhaps he could get some toys for her... (he's one...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-17-2011, 05:22 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,012
Posted By victoriasmommy86
of I def am in the wait & see camp. I hope...

of I def am in the wait & see camp.
I hope that by some miracle the dog hair won't make her miserable... but I was just kinda miffed that he said that he would not get rid of the dog no matter...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-17-2011, 01:36 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,709
Posted By victoriasmommy86
even at that young age.. they do see mom and dad...

even at that young age.. they do see mom and dad as the boss.
you are kinda new.
 
for example. DD is 3.5. ex has been in her life for a year. after a years absence.
I dont encourage him to...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-17-2011, 01:25 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 4,191
Posted By victoriasmommy86
While it is upsetting to be lied to, if you do...

While it is upsetting to be lied to, if you do anything drastic.... it could get worse.
 
by this I mean he could decide to take you to court & ask to keep your DD every other weekend.. and a...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-17-2011, 01:12 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,012
Posted By victoriasmommy86
DD is 3. She is afraid of dogs. like terrified....

DD is 3. She is afraid of dogs. like terrified. if she see one across the road she will run to me and clingy and whine...
This is something she will outgrow.
When DD was 1 we got rid of our inside...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-10-2011, 01:42 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 653
Posted By victoriasmommy86
while this may be the right decision... your son...

while this may be the right decision... your son needs validation from someone besides you...
so that in 5 or 6 years there's no way someone can tell him you "talked" him into it. let him know its...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-18-2010, 04:29 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,692
Posted By victoriasmommy86
Quote: Originally Posted by Ceinwen...

Quote:
Originally Posted by Ceinwen http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/15895561)
I thought you were going to say your DSD was...
Forum: Single Parenting   09-08-2010, 04:40 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 654
Posted By victoriasmommy86
my coworker was in this situation. often if a...

my coworker was in this situation.
often if a dad has the kids on weekends its easy for him to casually date.
But how do we moms get a chance to "casually" date without introducing our kids to the...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-08-2010, 04:16 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 613
Posted By victoriasmommy86
At court today (back child support hearing) ex...

At court today (back child support hearing) ex brought up access when the social worker has specifically told him that if he wanted it to be brought up he would have to let her know to show up. The...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-12-2010, 04:53 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 5,215
Posted By victoriasmommy86
I had a friend who knew her parents were not...

I had a friend who knew her parents were not happy and that he had told everyone the day she turned 18 she he was gone. Very sad.
she grew up knowing that her dad was miserable and felt it was her...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-12-2010, 04:41 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,624
Posted By victoriasmommy86
Quote: Originally Posted by Attached2Elijah...

Quote:
Originally Posted by Attached2Elijah http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/15728052)
I know this... I do, which is pretty...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-12-2010, 04:34 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 11,904
Posted By victoriasmommy86
Where I live an unmarried woman has full custody...

Where I live an unmarried woman has full custody unless otherwise ruled.

I was thinking about moving and my attorney said that once I kept the court order (giving ex visitation twice a week) no...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-12-2010, 04:23 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 712
Posted By victoriasmommy86
my DD isn't ready for overnights with her dad...

my DD isn't ready for overnights with her dad but she did spend the night at Nana's recently.

She thought I went home but I slept at the other end of the house in the guest bedroom after...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-03-2010, 03:28 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,031
Posted By victoriasmommy86
Jeanine your last 2 paragaphs were what I wish I...

Jeanine your last 2 paragaphs were what I wish I could have articulate to him.
We have been in counselling for 10 weeks... 1 1/2 hours each week, and its like he can't grasp that POV... its all "i...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-03-2010, 02:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,071
Posted By victoriasmommy86
I know this is supposed to be a postive place,...

I know this is supposed to be a postive place, and that the courts all want both parents to have relationships with their kids, but from a practical standpoint, you he can not just expect to walk...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-02-2010, 02:21 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,031
Posted By victoriasmommy86
like I thought that when it happened! DF...

like I thought that when it happened!

DF was like who was that, what the heck, he only saw the girl in the passenger seat and didnt recognize the vehicle.
but she had 2 giggling girls with her...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-02-2010, 01:45 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,031
Posted By victoriasmommy86
yes ex 3 year old dd's bio dad has been back in...

yes ex 3 year old dd's bio dad has been back in her life for 1 year.
1 hour twice a week at the playground was ordered til she was comfortable with him. she's not. she really doesn't like men....
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   05-04-2009, 04:29 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 645
Posted By victoriasmommy86
i thought it would work great from 4-5 or 5-6....

i thought it would work great from 4-5 or 5-6. but DD has stopped napping from 2-4 and now sometimes waits til I get home from work at 4.20 to nurse and just collapse asleep. I tried waking her 30...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   05-04-2009, 03:30 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 645
Posted By victoriasmommy86
i take huge offense to being told that he is not...

i take huge offense to being told that he is not her daddy. and not because of my situation. but because i know so many adopted kids and adults. including my father. teenage cousins etc. and when...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-30-2009, 05:09 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 645
Posted By victoriasmommy86
we signed a consent order... (live in the...

we signed a consent order... (live in the bahamas) social service says it should be half of her expenses but he doesnt make an extreme amount of money... but it is 3 times was i do b/c im working...
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