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Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-26-2014, 08:53 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 679
Posted By singin'intherain
I agree that it will take time, but I think you...

I agree that it will take time, but I think you should feel him out about whether he see the possibility of becoming closer to your son. Because these things can go the other way, too.
Forum: The Childhood Years   07-29-2014, 10:43 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 989
Posted By singin'intherain
It really depends on the kid! In the situation...

It really depends on the kid! In the situation described in the article, I think the girl was fine. It sounds like there were other adults that knew her at the park on a regular basis during the day....
Forum: Preteens and Teens   07-29-2014, 10:22 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 721
Posted By singin'intherain
13 yo boy can't say anything nice!

Hello wise mamas,
I guess I'm mostly hoping some of you out there have had kids go through a similar stage, and lived to tell the tale!

13yo DS is my second teen, but of course dd had her own...
Forum: Dental   06-13-2014, 11:24 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 546
Posted By singin'intherain
Disclaimer: I'm a dental student. I think...

Disclaimer: I'm a dental student.

I think you have a newer dentist who wants to be VERY sure he doesn't miss anything. It's a big responsibility!

At my school, they stress risk assessment,...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   06-09-2014, 12:47 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 756
Posted By singin'intherain
I don't think it works to have separate sets of...

I don't think it works to have separate sets of rules for different kids. It's not fair to the kids who have to tow the line, and it underestimates the ones who are always catching a break. I really...
Forum: The Childhood Years   03-01-2014, 02:18 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 281
Posted By singin'intherain
This was a generation ago, so I don't know how...

This was a generation ago, so I don't know how it is now (and of course this is based on the perspective of one person). Anyway, DP's experience is that kids do not oppose their parents overtly at...
Forum: The Childhood Years   03-01-2014, 12:30 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 281
Posted By singin'intherain
I'm sure he has some attachment problems. I've...

I'm sure he has some attachment problems. I've seen his mom around her kids, and though she hasn't seen them for months, she doesn't interact with them much. He is bonded to his dad, and me to a...
Forum: The Childhood Years   02-28-2014, 10:33 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 281
Posted By singin'intherain
DSS is scary violent. A little argument turns...

DSS is scary violent. A little argument turns into him launching an all out attack on the other kid frighteningly quickly. It happens so fast, I often don't know there's even been a difference of...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-28-2014, 10:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 475
Posted By singin'intherain
I second the advice you've been given! Don't...

I second the advice you've been given! Don't give up on DSD. It's heartbreaking for you, just imagine how she will feel if she thinks you guys don't care.
Forum: Preteens and Teens   02-26-2014, 03:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 922
Posted By singin'intherain
My daughter went through a similar experience at...

My daughter went through a similar experience at this age. She reached a point where she had spent enough time being a kid, it seemed like there was nothing new or engaging to do anymore. She wasn't...
Forum: The Childhood Years   02-26-2014, 02:56 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,524
Posted By singin'intherain
Both of my sons went through a stage at age...

Both of my sons went through a stage at age 2-6ish where they loved dresses, pink and purple, had painted nails, etc. It's not that they preferred "feminine" things, they just had an open mind. And...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-20-2014, 06:17 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 538
Posted By singin'intherain
I think it could be a reasonable request if it's...

I think it could be a reasonable request if it's a particularly nasty illness. If it's for every sniffle and cough, that sounds like her withholding visitation. An 11 year old isn't in any danger...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-19-2014, 04:18 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 647
Posted By singin'intherain
DS putting holes in the walls in not unheard of-...

DS putting holes in the walls in not unheard of- he has gone there in the past when he was under extreme pressure- when I divorced his dad, for example. This blending also came with a move to a...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-18-2014, 02:39 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 647
Posted By singin'intherain
Thanks for your replies! Most of the kids...

Thanks for your replies!

Most of the kids are in counseling, but not us. I know how important it is, but with my crazy schedule, we just haven't managed it yet. I realize that what we're going...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-10-2014, 11:35 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 647
Posted By singin'intherain
I hope some of you wise mamas have advice for...

I hope some of you wise mamas have advice for me! I'm a dental student, mother of four and stepmother of three. My school is ridiculously demanding, and my home situation is crazy too.

My partner...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   12-30-2013, 11:10 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 497
Posted By singin'intherain
One summer, my bf was taking a class, and I took...

One summer, my bf was taking a class, and I took care of his three kids plus my four every day. I spent the majority of each day dealing with his kids. They broke every rule, had nasty fights that...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   12-30-2013, 10:47 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,053
Posted By singin'intherain
I'm so glad to hear that he's open to going to...

I'm so glad to hear that he's open to going to therapy with you to try and work out your parenting differences. I think there's hope- my partner and I have overcome some serious roadblocks on the...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   12-27-2013, 09:00 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 237
Posted By singin'intherain
My 11yo SD gets very antsy without constant...

My 11yo SD gets very antsy without constant stimulation. We moved to a new city 6 months ago, and this was her life before we moved: up at 5am to meet her friends before school, homework at the...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   12-27-2013, 08:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 737
Posted By singin'intherain
My step kids have grown up with this stuff. I...

My step kids have grown up with this stuff. I think it's affected them a lot. I don't think these shows are poison, especially with some thoughtful filtering and the presence of an adult who can...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   12-26-2013, 11:01 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,053
Posted By singin'intherain
I foresee major trouble when you go to blend...

I foresee major trouble when you go to blend your families. These kinds of problems would crop up anyway for most people, but what you're describing sounds extreme. If you love his kids, he should...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   12-26-2013, 10:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 331
Posted By singin'intherain
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Poor kid! Life can be so complicated!
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   06-10-2013, 08:56 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,647
Posted By singin'intherain
I just finished reading your story. I hope...

I just finished reading your story. I hope things are moving in a positive direction- do you have any updates? Hugs for you and your family!
Forum: Games   03-08-2013, 06:29 AM
Replies: 13,702
Views: 64,887
Posted By singin'intherain
Hormone

Hormone
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-17-2013, 10:42 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,254
Posted By singin'intherain
I admit that I don't know you or your husband,...

I admit that I don't know you or your husband, so there are a lot of things I can't understand about this situation. I can only go by what you've posted here. Everything you've written here points...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-06-2013, 10:40 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 406
Posted By singin'intherain
Four seems to be the hardest age! Every...

Four seems to be the hardest age! Every difficult behavior a kid has seems to be magnified for  while at that age.
 
I really think this preference for you is just a kid thing, but for the adults...
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