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Forum: Single Parenting   11-02-2016, 12:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 533
Posted By hillymum
You have great proof that allowing dss to go to...

You have great proof that allowing dss to go to Mexico would be a dreadful idea, so the answer to mom is "No, but you are welcome to come here and we will help with the expense" or "No, dss is not...
Forum: Single Parenting   10-31-2016, 03:29 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 533
Posted By hillymum
I think you really need to consult an attorney on...

I think you really need to consult an attorney on this one. I don't think your current parenting agreement is enforcable if she moves to a different country though, and Mexico is a different...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-26-2016, 06:53 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 394
Posted By hillymum
"Your dad made really bad choices on who he would...

"Your dad made really bad choices on who he would have children with, but because of those bad choices, he and I have two amazing kids who we love. Right now your moms are not capable of being good...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   10-25-2016, 05:51 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 779
Posted By hillymum
The more I hear about her moms treatment of her,...

The more I hear about her moms treatment of her, I think she needs to see a councilor who will help her understand her mom isn't particularly mentally healthy. At 10 years old she shouldn't have to...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   10-24-2016, 09:58 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 779
Posted By hillymum
This is psychological/emotional abuse and it's...

This is psychological/emotional abuse and it's time dad stepped in and dealt with mom. Seriously, he needs to put a stop to this, monitor contact, and yes, maybe a session or two of counseling. I...
Forum: Single Parenting   10-23-2016, 09:22 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 914
Posted By hillymum
I don't think you want to even try thinking about...

I don't think you want to even try thinking about that! They must have very empty lives if this is how they get their kicks.
Forum: Single Parenting   10-22-2016, 11:01 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 914
Posted By hillymum
I was talking to a friend about this thread just...

I was talking to a friend about this thread just today, and how badly I felt for the posters 8 yr old who knows when her mom is having sex. That is not something a child should have to hear!!
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Forum: Single Parenting   10-20-2016, 01:24 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 914
Posted By hillymum
I've been dating the same guy for 4 years and he...

I've been dating the same guy for 4 years and he has never been here when my children are home, so there has never been the risk of that happening. I made a conscious choice to keep any of my...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   10-13-2016, 05:58 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,245
Posted By hillymum
Can I please make a suggestion, take this young...

Can I please make a suggestion, take this young lady to the store, help her choose a razor and some shaving cream, and let her use it. This has been blown out of proportion and is being dragged out...
Forum: UK   10-10-2016, 10:17 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 216
Posted By hillymum
The ad for London

Anyone else infuriated by the advert for London which starts with an incorrect British flag? I lived in London for 16 years and never once found West Minister Bridge.
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-08-2016, 12:45 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 676
Posted By hillymum
What your sd does with her armpit hair is no ones...

What your sd does with her armpit hair is no ones business but her own. It's her body, all the adults need to back off and leave that to her. In the future, leave informing mom of things like this up...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-19-2016, 07:40 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 531
Posted By hillymum
It still sucks, and I understand why you are hurt.

It still sucks, and I understand why you are hurt.
Forum: Preteens and Teens   09-19-2016, 10:47 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,762
Posted By hillymum
I agree with the phone, that might give you a...

I agree with the phone, that might give you a clue as to what is going on right now.

How are you providing support for her Do you hug her, hold her hand, tell her you are there to just listen if...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-19-2016, 10:29 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 557
Posted By hillymum
Am I the only person who read the op's post and...

Am I the only person who read the op's post and thought "What the hell?"

A child was asked (by step mom?) if he would rather stay with his stepmom than go with his biodad (stepmom's husband?) ...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-19-2016, 09:59 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 531
Posted By hillymum
Hi, I am sorry you were hurt by your children's...

Hi, I am sorry you were hurt by your children's exclusion. I don't think you can expect your husband's extended family to view your children (who were young adults when you joined their family) as...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   09-08-2016, 11:17 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 2,493
Posted By hillymum
moominmamma, I am surprised your child's school...

moominmamma, I am surprised your child's school allows mobile phones to be on in the classroom. Is it just for that class? Most schools have it in their code of conduct that phones are not allowed,...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-08-2016, 06:16 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,457
Posted By hillymum
That clause sounds amazing. I wish I had that! Ex...

That clause sounds amazing. I wish I had that! Ex wouldn't be able to cohabit with his gf ha ha.

VBB14, sounds like you are being very respectful of your bf's ex wife. It sounds like your bf...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   09-07-2016, 12:54 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 2,493
Posted By hillymum
I had no idea of all the other issues so I went...

I had no idea of all the other issues so I went and read other posts about this lads behavior. Honestly, if he was my son, I would have his ass at a psych hospital asap. Believe me, I did that to my...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-07-2016, 12:34 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,457
Posted By hillymum
Until you are engaged, or living together, you...

Until you are engaged, or living together, you are not a family, you are the girlfriend of a single father.

How much contact do they have with each other? Is it restricted to email, text, or...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   09-06-2016, 06:58 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 2,493
Posted By hillymum
Momto1, it sounds like your child has a serious...

Momto1, it sounds like your child has a serious problem understanding and respecting boundaries and rules. I would concentrate on helping him learn to respect those before worrying about hurt...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   09-04-2016, 07:56 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 2,493
Posted By hillymum
My middle son asked for a cell phone for his...

My middle son asked for a cell phone for his birthday, I took it away from him 2 weeks later. A girl sent him a photo which would have been classed as child porn. It was about how responsible he...
Forum: Fitness and Weight Management   09-01-2016, 09:55 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,939
Posted By hillymum
I'm using a fitbit as motivation to walk...

I'm using a fitbit as motivation to walk (competitive against my friends) and have started using my wii fit to get more cardio. The step exercises on it are pretty dull, but for 3 minutes each go,...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   09-01-2016, 09:03 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 661
Posted By hillymum
Is there a parenting plan (even a temp order)...

Is there a parenting plan (even a temp order) signed by a judge? If there is, he should take a paper copy with him to go get his son, and when she refuses to let him collect his son, call the police,...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-29-2016, 08:24 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 912
Posted By hillymum
Unless you are in a serious relationship heading...

Unless you are in a serious relationship heading (definitely, not just dreaming), you shouldn't bond. I would even go so far as to say if the child is with dad for only a month or so, let them have...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-29-2016, 07:42 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 908
Posted By hillymum
Sounds like your husband isn't very dependable or...

Sounds like your husband isn't very dependable or responsible, possibly why he was divorced? Don't put your wages into any bank account with his name, and he needs to possibly get a second job so he...
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