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Forum: Single Parenting   05-25-2007, 01:55 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,874
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
First of all to deny a child time with a parent...

First of all to deny a child time with a parent ABSOLUTELY is abuse. Yes, the movie was wrong but who is perfect. If a child got taken every time a parent made a bad choice- you get it. It was wrong...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   05-25-2007, 01:09 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 8,947
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
A little late to the party but I would have them...

A little late to the party but I would have them removed. I would have DAD say that they are not allowed in his home. I would have them removed and have both girls nails and toes painted instead. 8)...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-26-2007, 09:58 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Thanks everyone. I have made an appointment...

Thanks everyone.
I have made an appointment with both a counselor and a lawyer. DH is not ready to throw in the towel yet, which is surprising. He is hurt that DSD thinks of him as "disposable"....
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-24-2007, 04:21 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
I feel SOOO much better now that I know this...

I feel SOOO much better now that I know this actually happens to OTHER people . Not that I would ever want anyone to go through it just that we are not crazy ! Also letting go of the anger towards...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-24-2007, 02:52 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Google it. This is when a custodial parent...

Google it.
This is when a custodial parent brainwashes the child to turn them against the non-custodial parent. In an effort to make the custodial parent happy the child will even testify to things...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-24-2007, 02:07 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Ok I have listened to all of you and spent hours...

Ok I have listened to all of you and spent hours researching. Child support will not be withheld.
I do now realize that being 11 years old she is not able to stop her own manipulation. She is...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-24-2007, 05:30 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Since BM refuses to let DH pick up DSD for court...

Since BM refuses to let DH pick up DSD for court -ordered visitation can he refuse to pay child support ? Both are court ordered ? He was going to open a savings account in DSD's name and deposit...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-23-2007, 07:14 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Another quick note is that I am fairly confident...

Another quick note is that I am fairly confident if we fought for custody, we would win. But, then the DSD would resent us for taking her from her mom and worsen the situation. The accusations may...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-23-2007, 07:06 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
He would not be telling her to choose sides ,...

He would not be telling her to choose sides , just to tell the truth. She is being manipulated, yes, but she also has some control over the situation. She starts the lies and then sits back while...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-23-2007, 02:51 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Boobybunny, It really upsets me that you...

Boobybunny,
It really upsets me that you didn't read all my posts before making such an opinionated, hurtful post about me.
I am not coming in between my DH and DSD. I am the reason he hasn't...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-23-2007, 02:44 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
I never made any demands on my husband! However,...

I never made any demands on my husband! However, I can not allow my home to be disrupted constantly and my other children to be jepardized. We are going to counseling but not with DSD since his Ex...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-23-2007, 05:13 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
You are exactly right , we have to look out for...

You are exactly right , we have to look out for our other children too. Not to mention this constant drama is exhausting. With the new accusations being so serious we really are left with very few...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-22-2007, 10:13 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Here's what we came up with; the next time DH...

Here's what we came up with; the next time DH gets DSD he is going to take her by herself and talk to her. He will tell her that we can no longer live this way and it is time for her to decide if...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-21-2007, 09:02 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
He is willing to let her go if need be. I just...

He is willing to let her go if need be. I just worry that she will take from that , that the crazy people were right and we didn't love her. Plus my 5 year old is overwhelmed because he loves his...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-21-2007, 08:55 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 4,308
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Google pmdd. I have been going through this...

Google pmdd. I have been going through this since the birth of my 5 year old. I was put o hormone after hormone until finally my hair fell out ! Thing is I am fine when actually the time comes. But...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-21-2007, 08:43 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
I know the text wasn't my place but I have sit...

I know the text wasn't my place but I have sit with my mouth shut for SOOOOO long and let them run over us. We have went through unimaginable hoops just to have the right to see her. Then when we do...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-21-2007, 03:40 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Well , life just gets worse. I text the Ex-wife...

Well , life just gets worse. I text the Ex-wife about her condoning the lying and how that would effect the SD life. I didn't threaten her or call her names. Now, The MIL and Ex have gone to a...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-20-2007, 10:35 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,405
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
i have been SM of 11yr DSD for 7 yrs. She is...

i have been SM of 11yr DSD for 7 yrs. She is NEVER disiplined! My DH thinks we don't have her enough to make a difference. I am tired of letting her get away with stuff.
Ex, most recently she got...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-20-2007, 10:18 AM
Replies: 72
Views: 4,308
Posted By bettyboopbikermom
Ok I will try to make this as short as possible...

Ok I will try to make this as short as possible . I have been married for 7 years , I have a 13 yr old boy, he has 11 yr old girl , WE have a 5 yr old boy .Boys live with us , joint custody of 11 yr...
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