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Forum: Single Parenting   10-24-2016, 01:35 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 904
Posted By alpenglow
Moderator, can threads like this be removed when...

Moderator, can threads like this be removed when it appears to be a troll?

It's really reducing the quality and makes me hesitant to participate.
Forum: Single Parenting   10-03-2016, 06:30 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,110
Posted By alpenglow
Yeah he sounds like a typical abuser trying to...

Yeah he sounds like a typical abuser trying to decorate a piece of poo to look like a chocolate brownie.

My xh tried to argue that since he has the kids 20% of the time, he only pays 20% expenses....
Forum: Preteens and Teens   06-12-2016, 08:58 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,337
Posted By alpenglow
Same approach here. Help them understand why. I...

Same approach here. Help them understand why. I didn't have the battle lots of parents have about kids who want to use a booster before ready, or seatbelt before ready to give up the booster....and...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   06-12-2016, 03:10 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,337
Posted By alpenglow
Thanks! I suppose they fare better if buckled...

Thanks!
I suppose they fare better if buckled in the same way as the crash test dummies.
But lying down or unbuckled....will negate the safety features of a newer vehicle.

Very good point...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   06-12-2016, 01:48 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,337
Posted By alpenglow
I don't see seatbelts as anything to do with...

I don't see seatbelts as anything to do with fear. It's plain common sense if the statistics and crash test dummy tests show they save lives, and reduce seriousness of injury. And frankly I find...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   06-09-2016, 08:18 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,337
Posted By alpenglow
No way would I allow lying down without a belt. ...

No way would I allow lying down without a belt. Or lying down. Maybe ask yourself if you could live with it, if you had a rollover and he died. Someone I know lost a son this way.

When a rule...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-08-2016, 08:18 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,185
Posted By alpenglow
Oh yes, it won't be this way forever. You are...

Oh yes, it won't be this way forever. You are so deep in the trenches and it's really day by day and learning as much as you possibly can about legal strategy. I am guessing you have been googling...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   05-23-2016, 04:30 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 715
Posted By alpenglow
I don't know your full backstory. How long have...

I don't know your full backstory. How long have you been together, and lived together?
Does he pull his weight in other ways, or does it seem like you are the one doing the work. What happens...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   05-01-2016, 10:41 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,281
Posted By alpenglow
I agree with this approach so much! It's not...

I agree with this approach so much!
It's not disrespectful for a child to point out when someone else is being disrespectful....but I think as protective moms who usually face false allegations of...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-29-2016, 04:50 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,361
Posted By alpenglow
I thought this article had some good thoughts and...

I thought this article had some good thoughts and advice
http://expandedconsciousness.com/2016/03/29/hang-onto-past-relationships-ways-let-go/
Forum: Single Parenting   04-29-2016, 04:11 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,361
Posted By alpenglow
Heartbreak hurts :(. I can relate. We finally...

Heartbreak hurts :(. I can relate. We finally open our hearts again and wham, out they rip.
The responsibilities of life (kids, jobs) make it so hard to grieve. The end of close relationships is a...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-28-2016, 08:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 875
Posted By alpenglow
I think all children are emotional and sensitive,...

I think all children are emotional and sensitive, and it gets expressed in different ways as they learn emotional regulation.

Everyone is different, but I think a lot parenting is choosing your...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-28-2016, 12:48 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,361
Posted By alpenglow
Welcome back. I'm sorry you have had to go...

Welcome back. I'm sorry you have had to go through this heartbreak, after all those years of healing. Love and loss are never easy, especially if you are new to a place and don't have a lot of IRL...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-23-2016, 12:09 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 686
Posted By alpenglow
I would straight up ask him how he feels about...

I would straight up ask him how he feels about dating women who have children. In online dating, this is a question that everyone answers when filling out their profile. This is important, imo,...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-12-2016, 06:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 785
Posted By alpenglow
I don't see why she wouldn't thrive having...

I don't see why she wouldn't thrive having stable, secure adults in the home who love her and won't give her abandonment issues. There are probably people out there who experienced being a step...
Forum: Special Needs Parenting   03-07-2016, 11:57 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 712
Posted By alpenglow
Sounds like your district has an excellent...

Sounds like your district has an excellent special Ed teacher :)
Forum: Special Needs Parenting   03-06-2016, 03:49 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 712
Posted By alpenglow
Oh yes good point. I didn't choose my wording as...

Oh yes good point. I didn't choose my wording as carefully as I should. I think it's good to ask about what medications, if any, a child is receiving, as part of information gathering. And I think...
Forum: Special Needs Parenting   03-06-2016, 11:58 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 712
Posted By alpenglow
Broaching the topic of medications is absolutely...

Broaching the topic of medications is absolutely a boundary crossing. Teachers have zero medical training and it could be considered unprofessional practice by the College of Teachers (or whoever...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-16-2016, 01:42 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 764
Posted By alpenglow
Yep. Parental estrangement, he's doing it all on...

Yep. Parental estrangement, he's doing it all on his own...but of course if he is a blamer, he will have to try to blame it on you and use that so boring parental alienation story that all abusive...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-30-2016, 02:38 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,421
Posted By alpenglow
Those were beautiful hopeful posts. It is sooo...

Those were beautiful hopeful posts. It is sooo hard when the kids are so young. 3 years post divorce/separation and I feel I am only just beginning to move on...in such a much better mental space...
Forum: Organize & Declutter   01-09-2016, 09:38 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 681
Posted By alpenglow
Hmmm. Sounds like a covert lead-in to another...

Hmmm. Sounds like a covert lead-in to another "new member" posting a "helpful" link to promote a company. Just a guess.... ;-)
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-09-2016, 09:25 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,302
Posted By alpenglow
Having another separate space is super helpful. A...

Having another separate space is super helpful. A small home would give you more justification for having a "she shed" :)

One thing that has really helped in our small home is having a big...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-02-2016, 08:43 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,139
Posted By alpenglow
Maybe it is a hard water thing too?

Maybe it is a hard water thing too?
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-02-2016, 02:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,139
Posted By alpenglow
No issue here either. I give things a shake after...

No issue here either. I give things a shake after dry and they are fine.

I wonder if the kind of detergent affects it? (Maybe some have starch?) I use the Eco brands. I also wash in warm water/...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   01-02-2016, 02:37 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,302
Posted By alpenglow
Loveseats are a great alternative too when not...

Loveseats are a great alternative too when not needing a couch to lie down/stretch out on. No one sits in the couch middle seat anyway, lol. I have had both in tiny homes, but I love my little...
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