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Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-14-2009, 08:00 PM
Replies: 13
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Posted By momtostepteens
I will try to do some more one on one w/ him,...

I will try to do some more one on one w/ him, but I usually get told by his father that the boy doesn't want to be stuck with me all the time...so I butt my head up against the wall w/ him more...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-13-2009, 11:11 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,095
Posted By momtostepteens
Girls are doing ok....oldest one left over a...

Girls are doing ok....oldest one left over a year ago for school...and the other one talks to me about these things and has said that she doesn't blame me and that the boys truly need some...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-13-2009, 08:31 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,095
Posted By momtostepteens
This has been going on for more than 5...

This has been going on for more than 5 years...with each one of the SS's doing the stealing at one time or another.....it has not been an easy road.

I did put my foot down w/ DSS and told him...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-12-2009, 11:39 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,095
Posted By momtostepteens
Well......this was an interesting evening..... ...

Well......this was an interesting evening.....

Yes, he finally admitted to taking the items...yes, he admits he went into the rooms by jimmying the locks....(which will be fixed tomorrow)...yes,...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-12-2009, 08:37 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,095
Posted By momtostepteens
Neither of the parents think that they need any...

Neither of the parents think that they need any counseling....and this time, it was step son #3...so all of them have pulled the same stunt...

The first time SS #3 stole the personal items and...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   08-12-2009, 02:57 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,095
Posted By momtostepteens
 Good Afternoon..... Let me give you a...


Good Afternoon.....

Let me give you a little background.....3 step sons...17, 16, and 13...we have the boys every other week in the summer and 3 weekends out of the month during school...2 bio...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-28-2009, 12:24 AM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
I think I need to clarify something to you,...

I think I need to clarify something to you, Bronxmom......I DID NOT THREATEN TO CALL THE COPS ON HIM....I merely clarified that what he had done WAS against the law....and that yes, his mother was...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-26-2009, 10:28 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
Well, it was definately a better weekend than...

Well, it was definately a better weekend than the one before it.

My SS and I sat and chatted while I was working...he apologized for taking things......and I apologized again for blowing up at...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-24-2009, 11:30 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
I know all about this......my father was...

I know all about this......my father was gay....and having grown up with this....I have many tell tale ways of knowing this......
I feel this is a case of a young man and misunderstanding...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-24-2009, 10:48 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
Quote: Originally Posted by Yoshua...

Quote:
Originally Posted by Yoshua http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/13060228)
i would wait to see what happens with that...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-24-2009, 09:56 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
Quote: Originally Posted by eclipse...

Quote:
Originally Posted by eclipse http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/13059040)
I was wondering about this myself. Has anyone...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-24-2009, 06:19 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
So far so good w/ the visit w/ the boys this...

So far so good w/ the visit w/ the boys this weekend.....This boy came up to me, wrapped his arms around me (he is 6'4", I am 5'3") and said he had had a horrible week and how glad he was to be...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-22-2009, 11:24 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
OP. What did his mother say to you? Was she at...

OP. What did his mother say to you? Was she at all embarrased? Did she apologize or seem sorry for his actions? Was her only concern that you told him what he did was perverse and dared show anger...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-22-2009, 11:14 AM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
Thank you for getting a male perspective on...

Thank you for getting a male perspective on this...all of us ladies involved feel violated...maybe some don't understand this, but IT IS a violation.
My husband IS going to have a heart to heart w/...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-22-2009, 12:19 AM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
I appreciate some of the information that some...

I appreciate some of the information that some of you have given......

I will give you a little background on our situation.......

I have been with DH for over 6 years....this son has stolen...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2009, 03:08 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
I plan on apologizing to him this...

I plan on apologizing to him this weekend.....and try to talk to him about this.

I came here to try and find a solution to this problem and realize I have screwed up....

Sooooooooo, how bout...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2009, 01:59 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
Neither parent thinks that there is anything...

Neither parent thinks that there is anything wrong....so no counseling has been sought after...
I just want him to get some help and get past this.
And by saying the cops will be called, maybe...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2009, 01:50 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
And there is to be no consequences to these...

And there is to be no consequences to these actions? Just let it go and keep having him not get any help?
I do admit, I should not have said the perverse word...but it is perverse...and this is a...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2009, 01:30 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 8,687
Posted By momtostepteens
 Good Morning...... We are a blended...


Good Morning......

We are a blended family consisting of 3 stepsons and my 2 biodaughters....
Stepsons are 13, 16, 17......biodaughters are 18 and 20 (20 year old is on her own now)

We have...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-19-2008, 01:12 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 909
Posted By momtostepteens
An extra key had been taken and used a couple of...

An extra key had been taken and used a couple of times and then put back where it belonged......
He was punished with extra chores and some more priveledges taken away...
No clue on what his...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-18-2008, 03:20 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 909
Posted By momtostepteens
UPDATE: Situation was handled last night after...

UPDATE:
Situation was handled last night after the boys got here...Dad hit the roof not only with the boy, but also with me....after clarifying a few things and reminding both dad and son that this...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-13-2008, 09:54 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 909
Posted By momtostepteens
This is not the first time that this step son...

This is not the first time that this step son has done this....so having the talk doesn't seem to have done any good.....That is why I am asking about appropriate punishment...

I do think that...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-13-2008, 07:39 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 909
Posted By momtostepteens
I found this again this morning, and the hubby...

I found this again this morning, and the hubby was at work......I will speak w/ him before his boys come back here this coming weekend.......
I have put locks on both my own bedroom door and my...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-13-2008, 10:46 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 909
Posted By momtostepteens
Good Morning... Have had a problem now and...

Good Morning...

Have had a problem now and then with one of the three stepsons....I have an 18 year old daughter still living at home while she finishes school...my stepsons are 12, 15, and...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   04-28-2008, 09:11 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 516
Posted By momtostepteens
 Good Morning... Trying to figure out how...


Good Morning...

Trying to figure out how to handle my mom in law when it comes to my own daughter's feelings......

My own children were older than my 3 step kids.....I did quite a bit with...
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