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Forum: Single Parenting   12-25-2012, 12:33 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,312
Posted By zeta
He may well be "serious" about you, but he is...

He may well be "serious" about you, but he is indulging in the fantasy that he can be involved with you strictly as a woman, rather than, in the long run, a family.  He lets you have your kid at his...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-20-2012, 01:57 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 900
Posted By zeta
I am glad this got bumped up.  I relate to it so...

I am glad this got bumped up.  I relate to it so much.  I felt like my life was being destroyed when things fell apart, and I had so many fears- panic really, for the first year.  I had to work...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-24-2012, 03:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 810
Posted By zeta
I think it's really hard to compare different...

I think it's really hard to compare different "burdens" based on simple things like whether the other parent is in the picture or not.   What's the point?  No-one wins any medals.  We all just raise...
Forum: Special Needs Parenting   07-22-2012, 12:44 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 664
Posted By zeta
Hi... I have three, and one with ADHD, and it...

Hi... I have three, and one with ADHD, and it just really feels unmanageable.  I feel overwhelmed, ineffective, like our family "just does not work" too much of the time, and yet... what else am I...
Forum: Single Parenting   10-25-2011, 08:34 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 541
Posted By zeta
I am not dating right now, just focused on work,...

I am not dating right now, just focused on work, grad school & kids.  I'd been really struggling up until a week or so ago, and now I feel like I'm myself again.  life is good!  I do want a partner...
Forum: Single Parenting   10-24-2011, 03:29 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 541
Posted By zeta
robinchap i remember you!

robinchap i remember you!
Forum: Site Help   09-15-2011, 05:35 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 162
Posted By zeta
I used to be part of the private single...

I used to be part of the private single parenting lounge but all the sudden I have lost access. i have been participating, including the check-in thread, so it's not because I was lurking. I PM'd...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-22-2011, 04:15 AM
Replies: 71
Views: 2,982
Posted By zeta
 are the webinars something i can access? ...



are the webinars something i can access?  sounds really great. i know exactly what you mean and sometimes I can rest in that confidence as well.
 
As for your below comment- I have given sex...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-21-2011, 07:56 PM
Replies: 71
Views: 2,982
Posted By zeta
someone suggested watching the four man plan...

someone suggested watching the four man plan videos on youtube and thank you for that.  hilarious.  i think she makes some good points, but I still think dating any guy that asks you out is a huge...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-18-2011, 05:11 AM
Replies: 71
Views: 2,982
Posted By zeta
Devaya, I am sorry to hear it ended. But I am...

Devaya, I am sorry to hear it ended. But I am really proud of you for ending it the way you did.  It takes courage to walk away from the good parts in order to take care of your heart.  And it takes...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-04-2011, 07:46 AM
Replies: 71
Views: 2,982
Posted By zeta
 Quote:Originally Posted by Moochie...



Quote:Originally Posted by Moochie Mamma http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-04-2011, 07:41 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,360
Posted By zeta
I know it's April but I am just returning from a...

I know it's April but I am just returning from a trip and catching up. I really enjoyed the last week's posts. 
 
MM: "Wow.  I have no tolerance for being treated with anything but respect and...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-21-2011, 06:41 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,360
Posted By zeta
 Quote:  I call major red flag. ...



Quote: 
I call major red flag.




Me too.  If someone said that to me I'd flash a look at my non-existent watch and say - Oh my look at the time!  It was lovely spending the evening with...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-09-2011, 10:41 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,360
Posted By zeta
MM - that was kind and clear.  Well done!

MM - that was kind and clear.  Well done!
Forum: Single Parenting   03-09-2011, 04:14 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,360
Posted By zeta
Moochie: the sexts without an ongoing context of...

Moochie: the sexts without an ongoing context of seeing each other and calling would seem like a red flag to me.
 
Devaya: I think the biggest thing about the manifesting is focusing on what you...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-05-2011, 08:17 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,360
Posted By zeta
Devaya- I really hear you.  Sounds like he...

Devaya- I really hear you.  Sounds like he really pursued you, then changed to a more detached mode.  Yuck. 
 
I had a dream last night that I was dating one of my past guys perhaps like this one-...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-05-2011, 04:45 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,360
Posted By zeta
Devaya, My two cents worth: You're not getting...

Devaya, My two cents worth: You're not getting what you want/deserve in this relationship.  If I were in this situation, my hope would be that I would just honor myself and let it go rather than...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-01-2011, 04:01 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,360
Posted By zeta
Top priority 1-10, and I am not interested in...

Top priority 1-10, and I am not interested in dating anything less!
 
Which is why I'm not dating! :lol
 
I did have a fun friend-date the other night with a dance friend. we danced and laughed...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-01-2011, 03:44 AM
Replies: 105
Views: 5,676
Posted By zeta
Martha27, I would personally keep it to...

Martha27, I would personally keep it to something really simple like tea or a glass of wine, because if you don't click in person, dinner can seem interminable.  I always plan for a quick exit, and...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-26-2011, 04:33 AM
Replies: 105
Views: 5,676
Posted By zeta
Martha, if you want to, go for it.  if it turns...

Martha, if you want to, go for it.  if it turns out not to be the best thing for you, then you'll learn from that.  if it's good for you, great!
Forum: Single Parenting   02-21-2011, 12:34 PM
Replies: 276
Views: 21,089
Posted By zeta
 Quote:Originally Posted by...



Quote:Originally Posted by chaoticzenmom http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-21-2011, 12:30 PM
Replies: 105
Views: 5,676
Posted By zeta
My two cents worth on dating while holding a...

My two cents worth on dating while holding a candle for someone else: full disclosure and you're good to go.  If he knows where you are at, and chooses to hang out with you as a friend or date,...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-13-2010, 03:43 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 3,312
Posted By zeta
 Quote:Originally Posted by...



Quote:Originally Posted by Phoenix~Mama http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-09-2010, 03:50 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 3,312
Posted By zeta
Oh crap, LorenaAZ!  That sucks.  Sounds...

Oh crap, LorenaAZ!  That sucks.  Sounds horrible. I am glad you think you'll bounce back quickly, and I hope you do.  Sorry for the disappointment.
Forum: Single Parenting   12-08-2010, 04:21 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 3,312
Posted By zeta
Holland I was just thinking about you and...

Holland I was just thinking about you and wondering what you were up to.  Nice to hear your "voice".
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