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Forum: Single Parenting   08-24-2015, 06:50 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 324
Posted By hillymum
My first two were only 13 months apart, so I...

My first two were only 13 months apart, so I perfected the art of getting them to nap at the same time. I also joined mother and baby groups so I could go out, be with a group of other moms and not...
Forum: Fitness and Weight Management   08-22-2015, 03:53 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 464
Posted By hillymum
Hi, I've just started walking again. I injured my...

Hi, I've just started walking again. I injured my knee (stood on a piece of lego and hyperextended my knee) and then developed plantar fasciitis so after a pretty inactive lifestyle and recover from...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-18-2015, 11:02 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 730
Posted By hillymum
If the guns are locked up securely, and...

If the guns are locked up securely, and ammunition is also locked up, then the no minor has easy access to guns, therefore the law has been followed. No argument against the father having his son in...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-18-2015, 09:23 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 730
Posted By hillymum
A bar is differe, it is illegal for a minor to...

A bar is differe, it is illegal for a minor to drink alcohol. Children are allowed to use guns and be trained in their use and care. If he is to be around guns, and people in a store, he needs to...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-13-2015, 06:08 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 316
Posted By hillymum
WOW, you really have your hands full! I am so...

WOW, you really have your hands full! I am so sorry about your dd's father, that must have been devastating! I would suggest joining a gym with childcare, but your dd wouldn't enjoy being separated...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-11-2015, 04:34 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 396
Posted By hillymum
I am so sorry! I agree with do not show any...

I am so sorry! I agree with do not show any reaction, that's what feeds him. How old are your children, I take it young, 4/5yrs old? Have they told you they were happy with their haircuts? Sadly I...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   07-16-2015, 12:09 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 962
Posted By hillymum
I'm so sorry! I found a letter like that. We...

I'm so sorry! I found a letter like that. We stayed married and had another child, moved to a different country and then divorced 3 years ago, after almost 15 years of mostly unhappy marrige.
How...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-27-2015, 10:44 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 655
Posted By hillymum
What Alpenglow said. Stop giving his gf your...

What Alpenglow said. Stop giving his gf your kids. You don't need to be strict about your parenting plan, but sounds like you are totally ignoring it which can bit you in the ass later on, when ex...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-19-2015, 05:37 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 316
Posted By hillymum
Hi, welcome back to MDC. Your circumstances are...

Hi, welcome back to MDC. Your circumstances are particularly difficult! I am sorry your friends don't seem to see behind the mask you must wear every day. That myust add yet another layer of...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-01-2015, 01:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 564
Posted By hillymum
I wouldn't cancel any kind of school for parental...

I wouldn't cancel any kind of school for parental visitation. Not a good president to set. He can pick her up after preschool and return her in the evening.
Forum: Single Parenting   06-01-2015, 01:18 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 435
Posted By hillymum
I can't offer any advice other than build a...

I can't offer any advice other than build a network of friends to help support each other, and ignore the comment above as it was totally uncalled for and rude.
Forum: Single Parenting   05-15-2015, 05:41 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 575
Posted By hillymum
I;m sorry! It is inappropriate, hurtful and...

I;m sorry! It is inappropriate, hurtful and thoughtless. It is also not your place to make your son feel bad if he wants to help his dad celebrate his wedding. Your ex cheated on you, not your child....
Forum: Single Parenting   05-12-2015, 08:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 399
Posted By hillymum
If you google "divorce process in NC" quite a few...

If you google "divorce process in NC" quite a few website come up including this one (http://www.divorcenet.com/resources/filing-for-divorce/north-carolina.htm).
Forum: Single Parenting   05-08-2015, 05:48 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,519
Posted By hillymum
That is very true, and that is when court orders...

That is very true, and that is when court orders need to be changed.

I really think fathers get to slither out of their childrens lives far too easily. It is our job to encourage the continuation...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-08-2015, 02:31 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,519
Posted By hillymum
It really does sound like you need to be stronger...

It really does sound like you need to be stronger in setting boundaries, with your ex, (stop cancelling on kids), dh (if you can't be sympathetic at least DON'T ADD TO THE ISSUE), and to older...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-06-2015, 04:44 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 547
Posted By hillymum
If at all possible she needs the real docuents as...

If at all possible she needs the real docuents as copies are not legally accepted for anything really.
Forum: Single Parenting   05-06-2015, 04:41 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,519
Posted By hillymum
Lostwife, I don't think your husband is being...

Lostwife, I don't think your husband is being unreasonable. If the two of you were expecting time without children and your ex changes plans at the last minute, that is your ex being unreasonable. I...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-04-2015, 08:55 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 586
Posted By hillymum
Meetup is amazing!! I took up kayaking 2 summers...

Meetup is amazing!! I took up kayaking 2 summers ago, and now own three kayaks and have 4 trips planned with the local group. Who ever invented it deserves a medal!!

Learning to be by yourself...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-03-2015, 07:20 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 586
Posted By hillymum
You make plans, get out og the house, take up a...

You make plans, get out og the house, take up a new hobby, start going to the gym, reconnect with old friends. I don't know if it's something you ever get used to, but there are ways of making it...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-25-2015, 02:29 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 618
Posted By hillymum
I agree, sounds like CPS needs to be involved,...

I agree, sounds like CPS needs to be involved, and get the child placed with relatives if she will not agree to it without CPS involvement.
Forum: Single Parenting   04-20-2015, 08:02 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,944
Posted By hillymum
Maybe he wants to see if you will co-operate on...

Maybe he wants to see if you will co-operate on other matters?
Forum: Single Parenting   04-20-2015, 01:27 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,944
Posted By hillymum
Well done!! Has he said anything else about it?

Well done!! Has he said anything else about it?
Forum: Single Parenting   04-13-2015, 10:38 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,519
Posted By hillymum
Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering...

Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering the "burden" of supporting you and your child in the future? If he is looking long term I can actually understand that. I also don't understand you...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-13-2015, 10:38 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,519
Posted By hillymum
Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering...

Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering the "burden" of supporting you and your child in the future? If he is looking long term I can actually understand that. I also don't understand you...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-02-2015, 07:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 599
Posted By hillymum
I'm concidering getting a court order forcing ex...

I'm concidering getting a court order forcing ex to produce pay stubs and tax returns, (this year and every year following for the next 6 years!) I've explained it in the private forum. He's been...
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