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Forum: Single Parenting   03-13-2013, 05:26 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 593
Posted By Findingstrength
We saw a judge to get things moving. He...

We saw a judge to get things moving. He basically lectured us for 15 minutes about how he hated the affidavits.  One spouse would go on about how bad the other spouse was, then the second spouce...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-04-2013, 07:30 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 314
Posted By Findingstrength
Im trying to speak well of their father, even...

Im trying to speak well of their father, even when they are not in ear shot.  But it hard.  Then they look at you like if he's so nice, why are you getting divorced?
Forum: Single Parenting   03-02-2013, 05:04 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 314
Posted By Findingstrength
I am really wanting to move past being upset...

I am really wanting to move past being upset with x. Talk well of him when he's not around.  But never go back.  Any one got any advise on how you learned to get along with x.  We have to work...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-01-2013, 03:29 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 604
Posted By Findingstrength
Jewelry isn't worth much resale.  I think I'll...

Jewelry isn't worth much resale.  I think I'll give he diamond ring to ds one day. It's not the real ring. Their dad traded it in for a bigger one that would compete with the co workers. The red...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-21-2013, 03:24 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 160
Posted By Findingstrength
Can't stand Disney. When my kids were little,...

Can't stand Disney. When my kids were little, they only watched public tv. Clifford, super why, George. Those shows. Disney was load, and had too many adds for crappy food I didn't wan to explain...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-16-2013, 04:52 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 487
Posted By Findingstrength
Welcome to the club. What doesn't kill you makes...

Welcome to the club. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. It will suck for a few months, but it gets better.
Forum: Single Parenting   02-04-2013, 03:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 272
Posted By Findingstrength
Have you got a job? A job keeps your mind busy....

Have you got a job? A job keeps your mind busy. I have only been separated 5 months, but we were married 12 years. It took some time, but I think I am getting back to being ok alone. Do you have...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-27-2013, 04:19 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 516
Posted By Findingstrength
Good for you. If he really wanted no more kids...

Good for you. If he really wanted no more kids he should of been snipped. I feel this very strongly. Most medical research is conducted on men not women because we have these crazy hormones that...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-26-2013, 08:43 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 376
Posted By Findingstrength
Last week he sent me a text with a pic of ds...

Last week he sent me a text with a pic of ds using a drill press to get his pinewood durby car wheels fast. I text back, 'how are you able to afford a drill press.' He responds 'oh I know I wasn't...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-26-2013, 08:18 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,599
Posted By Findingstrength
Omg, seriously? Do these guys get that they are...

Omg, seriously? Do these guys get that they are parents too? And umm it isn't the 1600s anymore?
Forum: Single Parenting   01-26-2013, 06:38 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,599
Posted By Findingstrength
Things not to say to a woman that just got out...

Things not to say to a woman that just got out of a controlling marriage if you want to date her. I seam to attract freaks.

My wife was such a slob, she never cleaned.

My x wife wanted to go...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-26-2013, 06:28 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 544
Posted By Findingstrength
They have now gotten over the initial pain. Now...

They have now gotten over the initial pain. Now a few months later they are excited to visit dad because they ALWAYS do something fun and exciting. We will see if that continues after we figure out...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-14-2013, 05:34 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,066
Posted By Findingstrength
I'd like to move on and find someone. But I'm so...

I'd like to move on and find someone. But I'm so nervous to make the same mistake again or get trapped again. I'm going to be very careful with trusting anyone again. I've read you should wait four...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-11-2013, 12:14 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 436
Posted By Findingstrength
Weird. I was the one that left. I would feel...

Weird. I was the one that left. I would feel totally weird gaming into the house. I still have a key and the guarge door opener, but really wouldn't it be odd?
Forum: Single Parenting   01-05-2013, 05:26 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,324
Posted By Findingstrength
I expected everyone to be sad when I told them....

I expected everyone to be sad when I told them. Not one person was sad for me. Every single one was happy for me. I was sad. But then crazy happy, then crazy sad. I'm getting better, but no one...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-04-2013, 06:35 PM
Replies: 10
  Taxes
Views: 308
Posted By Findingstrength
I have the kids most of the time. He takes them...

I have the kids most of the time. He takes them one or two weekends a month. This is his weekend, but he says he can't take them, even though he made the calendar. One of the proposals he sent asked...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-04-2013, 06:24 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,066
Posted By Findingstrength
Poor guys. The price of progress. I reworked all...

Poor guys. The price of progress. I reworked all the outetws, paints the house, mows the yard, cooked, cleaned, ran the kids to all their stuff. Someone aske how it was being a single parent this...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-04-2013, 08:00 AM
Replies: 10
  Taxes
Views: 308
Posted By Findingstrength
I make squat and he makes the money. I just got...

I make squat and he makes the money. I just got a job as a teacher this fall and make 34,000 a year. That's what you get for staying home 9 years doing home daycare. I ran a daycare so the kids...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-04-2013, 06:16 AM
Replies: 10
  Taxes
Views: 308
Posted By Findingstrength
How do you handle them. STBXH want to each claim...

How do you handle them. STBXH want to each claim a kid and alternate which kid we each claim each year. We didn't get to court before the new year. Do we file joint for last year?
Forum: Single Parenting   01-03-2013, 06:20 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 271
Posted By Findingstrength
The outfit I wore when I got hired was brown...

The outfit I wore when I got hired was brown dress shoes with a chunky heal, not high, just normal dress heal. A beigh shirt with a brown print, and a snug brown tshirt over another tshirt with my...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-01-2013, 04:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 271
Posted By Findingstrength
How dressed up do you get? January in mn, so it...

How dressed up do you get? January in mn, so it will be cold outside, but it will be warm inside.
Forum: Learning at School   12-31-2012, 05:39 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 2,118
Posted By Findingstrength
That sucks. Makes it harder for the kids with...

That sucks. Makes it harder for the kids with ADHD. My kid has an adderal patch he has to wear to attend school. I don't drug him weekends or summer. He struggles at all after school and evening...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-29-2012, 07:57 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 344
Posted By Findingstrength
Yes, but most weekends I still have my dog. My...

Yes, but most weekends I still have my dog. My home completely trashed this weekend because the kids are gone and to fill the time I have several crafts and cooking projects going at once. It helps...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-28-2012, 07:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 260
Posted By Findingstrength
Yea, she is pushing for that. I just worry about...

Yea, she is pushing for that. I just worry about pushing him too hard and him getting ticked. I don't think he'd hurt the kids or me. But you read this stuff. He is very non confrontational. But...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-28-2012, 04:51 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 260
Posted By Findingstrength
As crummy as it it, I don't think we get...

As crummy as it it, I don't think we get everything we have lost back. I guess I don't know. When I said I was done, he said 'oh, we'll I'm done working overtime then.' He always worked overtime to...
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