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Forum: Single Parenting   02-16-2014, 06:06 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 412
Posted By DragonSlayer
Thank you.  The calculator does say he's paying...

Thank you.  The calculator does say he's paying approximately the right amount, but all the extra lessons, chiropractic, team sports, camps,  etc. are coming out of my pocket and it finally hit me...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-15-2014, 05:41 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 412
Posted By DragonSlayer
Thank you! I swear, the littlest things can be...

Thank you! I swear, the littlest things can be so helpful!  It's the weekend so I can't get a hold of Legal Aid or any lawyers, and the waiting is killing me, so thank you for telling me that.  I...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-15-2014, 07:09 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 412
Posted By DragonSlayer
Thanks, that is helpful. Well you are getting...

Thanks, that is helpful. Well you are getting more than me, percentagewise. And my ex makes a ton, by my standards. Are you supposed to pay for childcare out of your own pocket?? When i pay for...
Forum: Personal Growth   02-15-2014, 05:38 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 426
Posted By DragonSlayer
Yes, I have a narcissistic mother.  And what you...

Yes, I have a narcissistic mother.  And what you are describing is not just narcissism - it's abuse!
 
I just cut my mother off a month ago. I'm almost 41.  I couldn't stand it anymore.  It was...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-15-2014, 05:00 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 412
Posted By DragonSlayer
Hi, I've been frantically trying to figure out...

Hi, I've been frantically trying to figure out how come I spend almost the entirety of my meager wages on my children, whereas my ex, who has the kids about 20% of the time, spends about 1/8 of his...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-15-2014, 04:53 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 247
Posted By DragonSlayer
I can go back and get it! Thank God.  And I can...

I can go back and get it! Thank God.  And I can also adjust child support.  I feel so much better.  Thanks, everyone.
Forum: Single Parenting   02-11-2014, 03:40 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 331
Posted By DragonSlayer
Thank you!! I dont know where i even got...

Thank you!!

I dont know where i even got the 30% #... but whatever hes paying is the norm. ... i was awarded spousal maintenance, and in fact i still do get some from him. We were married 12...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-10-2014, 11:13 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 331
Posted By DragonSlayer
We never had any assets, except a car i paid for...

We never had any assets, except a car i paid for that he still owes me $500 for. We were in poverty almost the entire marriage, so i felt like i couldnt expect to go any higher. But we lived an...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-10-2014, 07:19 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 247
Posted By DragonSlayer
Oh, I was trying to edit but it won't let me -...

Oh, I was trying to edit but it won't let me - if it matters I realized that I have never made $1200/mo... that was a number my xdh came up with with the mediator and I felt too guilty to say that I...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-10-2014, 07:16 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 331
Posted By DragonSlayer
Thank you, Springshowers!   That is SOOOO...

Thank you, Springshowers!
 
That is SOOOO what I needed to hear!
 
I didn't realize it until you said that, that I have been fighting that very instinct.  I have so much energy to deal with this...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-10-2014, 06:45 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 247
Posted By DragonSlayer
Hi,   I signed away most of my rights in a...

Hi,
 
I signed away most of my rights in a divorce that I thought was "amicable," but later discovered that my xdh was very psychologically abusive the whole time, and continues to be. 
 
I was...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-10-2014, 06:33 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 331
Posted By DragonSlayer
Springshowers- Wow, i never even considered...

Springshowers-
Wow, i never even considered that. I signed away my rights to almost everything, i think. http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/greensad.gif
Forum: Single Parenting   02-10-2014, 06:00 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 331
Posted By DragonSlayer
Thanks, guys!   I've been living in a state...

Thanks, guys!
 
I've been living in a state of confusion for so long that I didn't even know what I was asking.  I"m already getting child support - that's not the problem.  I am getting a...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-09-2014, 06:58 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 331
Posted By DragonSlayer
Hi,   I divorced over a year ago, thinking...

Hi,
 
I divorced over a year ago, thinking my now xdh was a trustworthy person.  I was also extremely confused by the process.  Now I know why... he was psychologically abusive to me for 14 years...
Forum: New Member? Introduce Yourself!   02-05-2014, 07:51 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 92
Posted By DragonSlayer
Hi, i was active on this forum years ago, and i...

Hi, i was active on this forum years ago, and i came back on to find information about single parenting, divorce/custody issues, etc. I have been divorced for over a year and need to research to...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-05-2014, 01:44 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 730
Posted By DragonSlayer
Hi,   In my experience and research, a lot...

Hi,
 
In my experience and research, a lot of victims of emotional abuse go through phases of "wild behavior," PTSD, and a switch in the gender preference for sexual partners.  So emphasizing her...
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