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Forum: Multicultural Families   03-23-2015, 07:04 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 200
Posted By lilitchka
we do OPOL. home languages are different from...

we do OPOL.
home languages are different from community (english and french).
I am a native speaker of my language (russian) and Dh's language (arabic), so I understand everything.
Dh had to...
Forum: The Childhood Years   03-21-2015, 05:15 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 351
Posted By lilitchka
yes, my 5 y.o. really likes those!

yes, my 5 y.o. really likes those!
Forum: Adoptive and Foster Parenting   03-17-2015, 05:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 379
Posted By lilitchka
thank you for taking the time to reply. those...

thank you for taking the time to reply.
those are interesting ideas.I didn't think to talk about it with my kids. I thought they are too small, but my 5 y.o. has often great ideas and likes to be...
Forum: Adoptive and Foster Parenting   03-16-2015, 05:55 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 379
Posted By lilitchka
any ideas? I feel bad she is mostly in her...

any ideas?
I feel bad she is mostly in her foster care right now. CAS is ok with her staying as much as we want with us. (they inspected our house, did interview with us).
any one had little...
Forum: Adoptive and Foster Parenting   03-15-2015, 02:30 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 379
Posted By lilitchka
kinship care 12y.o.

I am looking for some help, experience, advice.
We are suddenly in a situation that we didn't prepare to be in.

we have biological DS1 5y.o., DS2 3y.o., and DD 4months (surprise baby).
I am the...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   01-05-2015, 08:52 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 321
Posted By lilitchka
thank you for your reassuring words lauren! I...

thank you for your reassuring words lauren!
I need to read that!
Forum: Gentle Discipline   01-03-2015, 06:43 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 321
Posted By lilitchka
update: so, it worked really well. I am...

update:

so, it worked really well. I am discovering a new DS2. no more hitting and throwing toys. he is more cuddly.
the family is more peaceful. our relationship improved.

but......there is ...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   12-16-2014, 03:35 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 321
Posted By lilitchka
Oh, and the other thing I was thinking about...

Oh, and the other thing I was thinking about lately, is why are we so against aggressiveness.

Being agressive is not necessarily bad.

when my DH aggressively removes weeds from the garden, it...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   12-16-2014, 01:53 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 321
Posted By lilitchka
thank you for all the replies, and taking the...

thank you for all the replies, and taking the time to answer.
I like the discussion going on, it is interesting.

it is getting a little better.
I thought about it a lot.
DS2 has always been...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   12-12-2014, 07:57 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 321
Posted By lilitchka
annaintoronto, thank you. i have heard of this...

annaintoronto, thank you. i have heard of this book before, i will look into it. it sounds interesting!

muddie; thank you for taking the time to post. I think we have very different views of...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   12-12-2014, 01:05 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 321
Posted By lilitchka
thank you muddie. I am not bothered buy the...

thank you muddie.

I am not bothered buy the behaviour (well yes, but it is minor ''discomfort'' for us). I am bothered buy what is causing the behaviour.
I would feel really bad if I ''control''...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   12-11-2014, 08:14 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 321
Posted By lilitchka
hitting and general agression

hi!
I am hoping to find some advice here.
we have 3 kids. ds1 5y.o., ds2 2and a half and dd 7 weeks.
ds2 stated agressive behaviour at 2. in the beginning of my pregnancy. it has been 9 months,...
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   11-03-2014, 05:26 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 2,640
Posted By lilitchka
congratulatiions!!!!

congratulatiions!!!!
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-29-2014, 06:29 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 383
Posted By lilitchka
agree with sunfish! you should be proud of...

agree with sunfish!
you should be proud of yourself for letting baby arrive when she is ready.
this birth was a hospital birh, but I arrived so late, that it felt like home birth....similar to my...
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-28-2014, 06:32 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 383
Posted By lilitchka
sorry it didn't work. you can always try...

sorry it didn't work.
you can always try another dose....
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-25-2014, 06:42 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 383
Posted By lilitchka
don't know how well it works if taken early. but...

don't know how well it works if taken early. but it seams like there is no harm to try.
she was 9 lb 4 onces, my smallest baby!
and she was born at 11:18 pm, so labor lasted 80 minutes!
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-25-2014, 11:57 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 383
Posted By lilitchka
I have a good story from our DD birth 5 days ago....

I have a good story from our DD birth 5 days ago.

I had GD on insulin, so midwives didn't accept me as a client.
My doctor wanted to induce me at 38 weeks (hospital protocol for GD on insulin)....
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-22-2014, 06:23 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 2,640
Posted By lilitchka
thank you mamas! my 2nd birth was a home...

thank you mamas!

my 2nd birth was a home birth, and this time I had to have hospital birth with MD because of insulin for GD. He wanted to induce me at 38 weeks. I refused. I am glad I did.(when...
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-21-2014, 08:47 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 2,640
Posted By lilitchka
Birth Announcment here: our girl, 3rd baby,...

Birth Announcment here:

our girl, 3rd baby, was born 2 days ago, the evening before her planned induction, at 41+4.
only 1 hour of active labor, barely made it to the hospital (really hard to not...
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-16-2014, 03:27 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 1,509
Posted By lilitchka
I ma 41 weeks. I had 2 acupuncture sessions...

I ma 41 weeks.
I had 2 acupuncture sessions (yesterday and the day before), and I am still pregnant.
it can't hurt I guess....
Forum: Healing Birth Trauma   10-15-2014, 11:54 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 300
Posted By lilitchka
WOW, thank you so much for your responses! they...

WOW, thank you so much for your responses! they are so helpful.


Ratchet: it is not the kind of response I was expecting, but it is probably exactly what I need to hear! I guess it is reassuring...
Forum: Healing Birth Trauma   10-15-2014, 01:55 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 300
Posted By lilitchka
need urgent help with dealing with my fears

I am 41 weeks pregnant with baby number 3.
My last birth (home birth), was traumatic to me.
Shoulder dystocia (baby over 11 pounds), baby transferred right away by ambulance to NICU, and remained...
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-13-2014, 05:14 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 369
Posted By lilitchka
I know how you feel Mercy. I am 40+4, my other...

I know how you feel Mercy.
I am 40+4, my other 2 babies where born earlier.
I am not very good at being in a positive mood today....
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-13-2014, 05:11 AM
Replies: 56
Views: 1,509
Posted By lilitchka
40+4, gestational diabetes on insuline, still...

40+4, gestational diabetes on insuline, still baby inside. I had lots of prodromal symptoms for the last week, but none the last 24 hours.
I am pressured for an induction since 38 weeks.
I think...
Forum: October 2014 Due Date Club   10-12-2014, 05:12 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 406
Posted By lilitchka
well, I am still pregnant. But for the...

well, I am still pregnant.

But for the tongue tie issue: is there any private LCs in your actual town?
did try different positions?
usually, with tongue ties, physiological/natural positions...
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