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Forum: The Childhood Years   06-12-2014, 09:47 AM
Replies: 14
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Posted By bellyfruit
I guess it is a matter of remembering that they...

I guess it is a matter of remembering that they are in fact playing, and have the minds of children. Gun play is about power, and a game of tag, and good and bad. And it does not mean to them that...
Forum: Co-sleeping and the Family Bed   02-21-2014, 01:42 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 492
Posted By bellyfruit
I think you have gotten really good advice here....

I think you have gotten really good advice here.  I think it is easy to get caught in a trap of trying to not let our firstborn experience any discomfort.  But it does not actually serve the child...
Forum: The Childhood Years   02-21-2014, 01:07 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 244
Posted By bellyfruit
My 7yo dd does these things- the excessive...

My 7yo dd does these things- the excessive talking, interrupting, pushing verbally.  I think it is a combination of verbal skills being her strong suit and wanting attention.  But, as an introvert,...
Forum: Parents as Partners   02-10-2014, 12:23 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 202
Posted By bellyfruit
I hear you completely.  We have dreams that we...

I hear you completely.  We have dreams that we need to reach to the sky for.  But oh how heavy the weight of the family is when I am trying to carry it all myself.
Forum: Babywearing   02-05-2014, 11:52 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 228
Posted By bellyfruit
Hey ladies, I am on the prowl for a fleece...

Hey ladies,
I am on the prowl for a fleece pouch sling.  Preferably one that is sized- not adjustable.  Any recommendations?
TIA!
Forum: Breastfeeding   01-15-2014, 11:08 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 270
Posted By bellyfruit
I love the Melinda G t-shirt bra.  And Bravado...

I love the Melinda G t-shirt bra.  And Bravado makes lots of great nursing bras.
Forum: Homebirth   01-02-2014, 08:47 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 180
Posted By bellyfruit
If you want stronger meds than your midwife can...

If you want stronger meds than your midwife can provide, which depends on the laws in your state, then simply go to your regular doctor and ask for them from her. Just tell her that you want care...
Forum: Breastfeeding Challenges   12-31-2013, 03:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 205
Posted By bellyfruit
I would breastfeed first for every feed.  Only...

I would breastfeed first for every feed.  Only after offer formula.  Supply is directly related to demand, so the more often your baby suckles, the more your breasts will know to make.  Pumping does...
Forum: Co-sleeping and the Family Bed   12-27-2013, 06:06 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 724
Posted By bellyfruit
I don't think it is dangerous at all to fall...

I don't think it is dangerous at all to fall asleep while nursing and co-sleeping. That's kind of the point- to get sleep while your brain is synched up with your babe.
I use pillows and a...
Forum: Life With a Baby   12-13-2013, 11:19 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 173
Posted By bellyfruit
I would do something warmer for his legs and...

I would do something warmer for his legs and feet.  Wool or fleece pants to go over cotton ones, and shearling or fleece booties with socks for the feet.  My kids always get cold limbs on winter...
Forum: Life With a Baby   12-04-2013, 11:23 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 204
Posted By bellyfruit
GMD prefolds, covers, favorite is Bummis Super...

GMD prefolds, covers, favorite is Bummis Super Whisper Wrap, and cloth wipes
Ergo type carrier
Baby swing 
Big bed for co-sleeping
Stroller- my favorite is the City Mini as it's lightweight,...
Forum: Breastfeeding   12-04-2013, 11:02 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 344
Posted By bellyfruit
I do not consider myself modest at all.  But I...

I do not consider myself modest at all.  But I only ever nurse in public by lifting my shirt, and then the baby and shirt cover me up.  I don't lift my breast out the top of my tank tops in public-...
Forum: Diapering   12-04-2013, 10:51 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 130
Posted By bellyfruit
Any time we have had a bad rash it turned out to...

Any time we have had a bad rash it turned out to be yeast too.  I only use water on my wipes though- we are sensitive to soap.  
Forum: I'm Pregnant   11-13-2013, 09:46 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 172
Posted By bellyfruit
I would let her know you are scared of taking it...

I would let her know you are scared of taking it and ask her if she has any alternative ideas.  Monistat, Gyne-lotrimin, or Yeast Arrest (boric acid suppositories) are all safe in pregnancy.  
Forum: Stay at Home Parents   10-30-2013, 11:06 AM
Replies: 212
Views: 10,722
Posted By bellyfruit
I totally agree with preemieprincess.  And,...

I totally agree with preemieprincess.  And, really, you just can't live your life caring what others think of you.  So some folks look down on me for being at home with my kids?  Oh well, I like...
Forum: Stay at Home Parents   10-23-2013, 10:21 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 239
Posted By bellyfruit
Without an outside structure determining my...

Without an outside structure determining my schedule, I find that I can get stuck not meeting my own needs and feeling overwhelmed.  Theoretically, sahming could be the most awesome life choice we...
Forum: Homebirth   10-22-2013, 09:50 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 448
Posted By bellyfruit
I have not torn with any of my births.  But I do...

I have not torn with any of my births.  But I do know it is entirely possible to not tear in a subsequent birth.  I do not know the circumstances of your first birth, but if you received an...
Forum: Parents as Partners   10-17-2013, 09:32 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 60
Posted By bellyfruit
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Forum: Diapering   10-14-2013, 04:23 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 89
Posted By bellyfruit
Have you tried using calgon water softener...

Have you tried using calgon water softener powder?  It worked for me on my cotton diapers when I lived in a place with water so hard it was rust colored.  And could you set up a water softener that...
Forum: Stay at Home Parents   10-14-2013, 09:54 AM
Replies: 2
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Posted By bellyfruit
sweet.

sweet.
Forum: Stay at Home Parents   10-08-2013, 04:22 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 670
Posted By bellyfruit
Glad you have made some progress.  None of us...

Glad you have made some progress.  None of us should get run into the ground by the tasks of everyday life!
Forum: Diapering   10-07-2013, 09:24 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 356
Posted By bellyfruit
If you are using a normal flannel receiving...

If you are using a normal flannel receiving blanket, I would say a large birdseye flat is a little bit more absorbent.  But still not as absorbent as a prefold.    
Forum: Stay at Home Parents   10-05-2013, 06:17 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 670
Posted By bellyfruit
I really do not know what to do either.  There...

I really do not know what to do either.  There is so much to do, and it never ends.  Childcare and housework is not something that you can clock out of.  So it is obvious to me that dividing the...
Forum: Learning at Home and Beyond   10-03-2013, 01:16 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 593
Posted By bellyfruit
It sounds like he is not comfortable around the...

It sounds like he is not comfortable around the other kids.  It is a lot harder to play with kids than adults, particularly your parents, who pretty much follow your lead.  No doubt he will...
Forum: Diapering   10-02-2013, 11:16 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 356
Posted By bellyfruit
It depends how old your baby is.  One large flat...

It depends how old your baby is.  One large flat is plenty absorbent for a newborn.  But then they go through times of peeing heavily, and you'll probably need to add a doubler, like a small...
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