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Forum: Single Parenting   07-26-2014, 08:32 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 532
Posted By bananabug
Does it ever get better with an angry, bitter ex?

Just hoping someone can offer some hope….

I recently finalized my divorce after a long 2 year process. My ex did not want the divorce. Communication has slowly broken down to the point that he...
Forum: Family Planning   06-10-2014, 07:00 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 319
Posted By bananabug
I just looked back at my old threads and realized...

I just looked back at my old threads and realized I posted about this in 2009! So I guess this is possible for me if it's happened in the past. But still wouldn't mind feedback about others...
Forum: Family Planning   06-09-2014, 07:26 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 319
Posted By bananabug
Early ovulation?

Has anyone ever ovulated super early- like CD 5 or 6? This cycle, I felt my usual ovulation pain, and saw EWCM, and saw my temp jump, during the end of AF! But based on this, I expected AF days ago...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-15-2013, 09:17 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,149
Posted By bananabug
For me it would be 4 yrs- no way I plan to wait...

For me it would be 4 yrs- no way I plan to wait that long. I just filed last week and I can't wait to sow some wild oats!! http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/wink1.gif
Forum: Single Parenting   01-08-2013, 08:18 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 420
Posted By bananabug
I think it may be in your favor to have him...

I think it may be in your favor to have him start in K near you because I'm guessing a judge would be very reluctant to have him switch once he's already settled into a school.
Forum: Single Parenting   01-06-2013, 01:14 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 294
Posted By bananabug
I do really want the house because it's perfect...

I do really want the house because it's perfect for renting out space (there's an in-law apt), which will make it affordable for me. It will actually be cheaper than renting a 3 bedroom for me and...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-06-2013, 09:42 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 294
Posted By bananabug
Hi everyone- I've been browsing posts for the...

Hi everyone- I've been browsing posts for the past few months (after a long absence from MDC) and wanted to say hi. After several years of struggling to make a decision and take steps, I finally...
Forum: Vermont. New Hampshire, Maine   04-06-2011, 08:49 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 502
Posted By bananabug
I know the Burlington store closed a while...

I know the Burlington store closed a while back....did the Brattleboro location close as well?
Forum: Single Parenting   01-13-2010, 10:03 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 813
Posted By bananabug
Is this worthwhile to do (keeping a diary) if...

Is this worthwhile to do (keeping a diary) if you are both at home? We have a home business and currently both work from home, but I do 80% of taking care of the kids. We are also likely headed for...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-05-2010, 11:17 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 772
Posted By bananabug
Quote: Originally Posted by meemee...

Quote:
Originally Posted by meemee http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/14884596)
loneliness?

true heart wrenching deep...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-03-2009, 12:50 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,502
Posted By bananabug
Quote: Originally Posted by AngeliqueW...

Quote:
Originally Posted by AngeliqueW http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/14602256)
Not sure if any of you are still out...
Forum: Working and Student Parents   10-14-2009, 11:42 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 496
Posted By bananabug
Quote: Originally Posted by runnerbrit...

Quote:
Originally Posted by runnerbrit http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/14514893)
I have considered going for my Masters. So...
Forum: Single Parenting   10-10-2009, 07:33 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 747
Posted By bananabug
Thanks for your post- I do see what you're...

Thanks for your post- I do see what you're saying. The voice inside me says it's time, I guess it's the guilt and fear making me second guess it. Anyone have any btdt stories to share? How do you...
Forum: Single Parenting   10-03-2009, 12:06 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,502
Posted By bananabug
I'm in a similar "thinking" place right now....

I'm in a similar "thinking" place right now. Trying to figure out how to do it. I've been contemplating divorce for 10 months, and have put some things in place so that I'm prepared. But several...
Forum: Single Parenting   09-21-2009, 10:26 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 747
Posted By bananabug
Hi everyone- I decided to resurrect this thread...

Hi everyone- I decided to resurrect this thread because I felt like I needed a reality check or some feedback at least. TIA for reading!

Since I posted this thread 3 months ago, H and I have...
Forum: Family Planning   07-20-2009, 04:33 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,397
Posted By bananabug
I know it makes no logical sense, but that seems...

I know it makes no logical sense, but that seems to be what happened for me this cycle. I'll admit I wasn't temping, but I did feel my usual intense o pain on day 6 (and o pain has always coincided...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-05-2009, 12:35 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 747
Posted By bananabug
Thanks everyone- I'm basically just riding this...

Thanks everyone- I'm basically just riding this next part out. I decided to do the counseling piece just to lay some things to rest. I think it's good for me to process what happened and let him...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-04-2009, 12:55 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 337
Posted By bananabug
I totally understand where you're at- you know...

I totally understand where you're at- you know what's right for you, you have all the reasons, but the sadness is still there. You're a step ahead of me- I just managed to have H move into the guest...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-01-2009, 06:56 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 747
Posted By bananabug
Quote: Originally Posted by AllysonB...

Quote:
Originally Posted by AllysonB http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/14020367)
I understand how you feel. Even being the...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-01-2009, 06:56 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 747
Posted By bananabug
Quote: Originally Posted by MaWhit...

Quote:
Originally Posted by MaWhit http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/14017366)
Would you consider a separation followed by...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-01-2009, 06:54 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 747
Posted By bananabug
Quote: Originally Posted by chaoticzenmom...

Quote:
Originally Posted by chaoticzenmom http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/14019230)
Consider what would happen if you got...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-01-2009, 12:17 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 747
Posted By bananabug
After many months in limbo, I finally started...

After many months in limbo, I finally started talking to H this weekend about how unhappy and hurt I am by the things that have happened between us, and how we need to move on from our marriage. We...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-27-2009, 12:10 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 355
Posted By bananabug
and I'm feeling very muddled by it all. I...

and I'm feeling very muddled by it all. I started off telling H how unhappy I was, how I'm still angry about what happened 6 months ago and can't move beyond it, how we have an unhealthy dynamic...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-26-2009, 12:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 355
Posted By bananabug
Good advice, thank you. He does not currently...

Good advice, thank you. He does not currently work outside of our business, and I manage all that financial info. He does have accounts in his name and I most recently got copies of statements in...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-25-2009, 11:39 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 355
Posted By bananabug
It's taken me many months to get to this place,...

It's taken me many months to get to this place, and I'm sure many would wonder why I hadn't done this by now (my family certainly does). But I think I am finally ready to start the discussion with H...
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