Mothering Forums - Search Results

Showing results 1 to 25 of 250
Search took 0.16 seconds.
Search: Keyword(s): ; Posts Made By: autumngrey
Forum: Single Parenting   Yesterday, 02:59 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 178
Posted By autumngrey
I read a recent case that sounds similar to...

I read a recent case that sounds similar to this--father stayed home with child, mother worked and was granted primary residential responsibility--that was recently appealed and affirmed by the upper...
Forum: June 2015 Due Date Club   12-02-2014, 06:34 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 2,358
Posted By autumngrey
I won't go public for a month or two at least. I...

I won't go public for a month or two at least. I didn't tell anyone outside DH, my mom, medical personnel, and my DDC until 22 weeks weeks in my last pregnancy, and even then it was only select...
Forum: June 2015 Due Date Club   12-02-2014, 01:54 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 2,879
Posted By autumngrey
(1.) Due Date: June 29, but will likely go early....

(1.) Due Date: June 29, but will likely go early.
(2.) What number child this is for you, and if it is a rainbow baby: #3 (http://www.mothering.com/forum/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=3) ,...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   10-08-2014, 03:02 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 597
Posted By autumngrey
My 10yo DSD gets up and leaves the house around...

My 10yo DSD gets up and leaves the house around 6:30am because her mom works a little under an hour from their home, and DSD goes to the other side of their town to stay with someone until her school...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-27-2014, 12:07 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 925
Posted By autumngrey
Generally speaking, anything that you and the...

Generally speaking, anything that you and the father agree to and submit to the court as a parenting agreement will be approved by the court unless state law specifies that the agreement is not legal...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-03-2014, 03:18 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,864
Posted By autumngrey
It's been a couple weeks since you last posted....

It's been a couple weeks since you last posted. How did the hearing go?

I came across this article today. I didn't read it carefully, but it appears to cover some of the issues your child's father...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-18-2014, 03:22 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,864
Posted By autumngrey
I'm not particularly for or against homeschooling...

I'm not particularly for or against homeschooling (or any other kind of schooling for that matter) so please don't take any of my comments to mean I'm against you/HSing. That's not my intent in the...
Forum: Site Help   05-30-2014, 12:10 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 17,069
Posted By autumngrey
Edited: it's fixed now. :-) :-)

Edited: it's fixed now. :-) :-)
Forum: Single Parenting   05-05-2014, 12:07 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 476
Posted By autumngrey
Since others have already addressed the video...

Since others have already addressed the video game misunderstanding, I'll focus on the hunting issue.
 
I am of the "teach kids early to respect firearms" mindset, so with that bias, if Ex has...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-03-2014, 02:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 375
Posted By autumngrey
Did he retain an attorney during the divorce...

Did he retain an attorney during the divorce proceedings or afterward (for this "emergency hearing" situation or otherwise)? If so, you may be able to give notice to that attorney even if they don't...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-19-2014, 02:03 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 916
Posted By autumngrey
You cannot be forced to give up (i.e. sign away)...

You cannot be forced to give up (i.e. sign away) your rights, but legal technicalities may result in loss of rights if you don't take the necessary actions now. Scour over the papers you received to...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-07-2014, 03:37 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 228
Posted By autumngrey
While I am quite on your side on this issue, not...

While I am quite on your side on this issue, not only in terms of fluoride but also it being your child to make decisions for, I am impressed by his conversation. I am moved by him talking in terms...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-28-2014, 01:57 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 483
Posted By autumngrey
I know there are moms here who have been through...

I know there are moms here who have been through tough situations like this and come out the other side with more time (or primary custody) of their DSC so I hope great advice will be here soon.
 ...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-21-2014, 10:57 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 559
Posted By autumngrey
It's reasonable for parents to talk through...

It's reasonable for parents to talk through these kind of issues and to share information to come to make an informed decision of whether to proceed with the visit as scheduled or not. In case they...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-20-2014, 02:51 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,363
Posted By autumngrey
I think it's unreasonable to expect kids who...

I think it's unreasonable to expect kids who really don't know much about each other to be forced into a close-quarters situation when they're asking not to be forced and there is an option to avoid...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-13-2014, 02:46 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,864
Posted By autumngrey
Normally I suggest that openly discussing major...

Normally I suggest that openly discussing major decisions--not necessarily agreeing--is sufficient to satisfy joint decision making requirements. Some decision has to be made on major issues (as in,...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-11-2014, 02:51 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 338
Posted By autumngrey
As an example of what the possibilities may be,...

As an example of what the possibilities may be, this page seems to sum it up nicely for New Jersey - http://www.divorcenet.com/states/new_jersey/may_I_reopen_my_divorce_case (completely arbitrary...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-11-2014, 12:59 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 527
Posted By autumngrey
Quote:Originally Posted by...

Quote:Originally Posted by limabean http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/t/1396786/sometimes-its-just-so-hard#post_17565513)

And then go....
Forum: Single Parenting   02-11-2014, 12:17 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 562
Posted By autumngrey
Unless you sign the IRS form 8332 to claim DS on...

Unless you sign the IRS form 8332 to claim DS on his federal tax return, he cannot (legally) claim DS since he lives with ex less than 50% of the year. You don't have to sign that form unless a...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-24-2014, 11:24 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 198
Posted By autumngrey
I would review your divorce/custody orders to...

I would review your divorce/custody orders to see if there's any guidance there. My DH's custody order states that each parent is required to notify the other parent and the court of any change of...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-23-2014, 12:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 208
Posted By autumngrey
If she is working on getting divorced because of...

If she is working on getting divorced because of an already-abusive relationship, why consider buying a house and having one more thing that ties them together? Unless she has any hope of being able...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-13-2014, 12:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 327
Posted By autumngrey
If you can get those witnesses to write an...

If you can get those witnesses to write an affidavit and get it notarized now it would be a great thing to save in your files. It's best to not wait until they've forgotten the details of the...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-07-2014, 02:56 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 631
Posted By autumngrey
Unfortunately a 3 hour distance between your...

Unfortunately a 3 hour distance between your homes means 6 hours of round-trip driving for the driving parent, which is admittedly exhausting to do alone. It probably means she is quite tired for...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-07-2014, 01:55 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 469
Posted By autumngrey
Quote:I agree to some extent, but I think what...

Quote:I agree to some extent, but I think what looks bad to the court is if you are blocking contact, rather than not encouraging it.  I would continue sending email updates about the legal custody...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-26-2013, 11:14 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 174
Posted By autumngrey
^^ Yeah. :-(   Are you still working on your...

^^ Yeah. :-(
 
Are you still working on your divorce agreement? If so, it might be something important enough to consider there. It wouldn't actually be enforceable (as in, if something were to...
Showing results 1 to 25 of 250

 
Forum Jump: