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Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   01-19-2015, 04:09 PM
Replies: 61
Views: 1,201
Posted By hillymum
I think the lawyer you saw makes sense. My lawyer...

I think the lawyer you saw makes sense. My lawyer was a shark, and his bill reflects that, and no, my ex wasn't made responsible for payment, though he was responsible for 95% of the conflict.
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Forum: Country Living / Off the Grid   01-19-2015, 02:00 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 580
Posted By hillymum
Don't most people who like fresh free range eggs...

Don't most people who like fresh free range eggs fine with a little gunk on the eggs?
Forum: Single Parenting   01-12-2015, 06:30 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 696
Posted By hillymum
I know this is kind of an old thread, but have...

I know this is kind of an old thread, but have you left this ass yet? I really hope you have because he sounds like a total %$$# He seems to have mimicked a few lines my exbf gave me, including the...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   09-23-2014, 10:14 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 425
Posted By hillymum
So funny that you have written this! I was coming...

So funny that you have written this! I was coming to write a similar post!

I switched to Walmart's family plan, and added a second line. I am now paying $45 a month (for both lines total) with...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   09-04-2014, 02:51 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,989
Posted By hillymum
I use 25% of my income for rent, which includes...

I use 25% of my income for rent, which includes all utilities apart from electricity. It also includes extra for three pets and HOA fee. Compared to what else is available this house is a huge...
Forum: Special Needs Parenting   09-04-2014, 12:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 587
Posted By hillymum
My 10 year old has a lot of emotional issues as...

My 10 year old has a lot of emotional issues as well as ADHD. He was attached from the very moment he was born, as in I was the only person who could hold him without him crying, and if I was more...
Forum: Single Parenting   09-02-2014, 06:07 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 598
Posted By hillymum
This is impressive!!

This is impressive!!
Forum: Single Parenting   09-02-2014, 06:00 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 761
Posted By hillymum
I'm at the same point as you are! My youngest is...

I'm at the same point as you are! My youngest is 10 now though. He is very very attached though, to the point even if I do not tell him I am going out in the evening, even 2 hours after he goes to...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-29-2014, 08:44 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 598
Posted By hillymum
The simple answer is that you should be able to...

The simple answer is that you should be able to sit down and agree to some basic boundary's. Knowing what time the kids are expected, they are old enough to let themselves in and do not need him to...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-11-2014, 10:07 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 6,849
Posted By hillymum
My two older kids boys have facebook accounts and...

My two older kids boys have facebook accounts and as they do hardly anything at their dads other than play on their laptops I can chat with them whenever they want to. Youngest son (9) will ask to...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-11-2014, 09:56 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 783
Posted By hillymum
I too have no words of advice, but want to show...

I too have no words of advice, but want to show my support. I can't imagine how you feel all the time. All I can hope for is that one day your ex turns himself around and does his best to make...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-24-2014, 11:13 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,868
Posted By hillymum
Just because he told his attorney he will do it...

Just because he told his attorney he will do it doesn't mean he actually will. My ex missed about three mediation appointments I think.   Good luck!
Forum: Single Parenting   04-15-2014, 09:59 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 584
Posted By hillymum
I booted ex out on the evening of 3rd July 2009...

I booted ex out on the evening of 3rd July 2009 and filed for divorce the following week. The divorce was finalized on April 10th 2012 I think. Ex was a real ass, we were in and out of court...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-07-2014, 06:45 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,586
Posted By hillymum
Oh how I would like to slap the next person who...

Oh how I would like to slap the next person who says they are basically a single parent. No you damn well arent! You don't have to defend your child against your ex partner, scrape buy on nothing,...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-07-2014, 06:30 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 245
Posted By hillymum
Honestly? I do nothing but parent my kids, don't...

Honestly? I do nothing but parent my kids, don't have a (paying)  job, don't go to school etc, and I am on anti anxiety/stress/depression meds.  I do have clinical depression, and if I go three or...
Forum: Organize & Declutter   02-21-2014, 03:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 738
Posted By hillymum
I moved from the marital home (3800sq ft and...

I moved from the marital home (3800sq ft and finished basement) to a 1600sq ft, 3 bedroom  with partially finished basement home about a year ago. I gave away so many unused toys, clothes, furniture...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-01-2013, 08:40 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 532
Posted By hillymum
WOw, he sounds like a real winner! Have you been...

WOw, he sounds like a real winner! Have you been advised that sticking to email and recording all conversations is a good idea? Saying his house is too unclean for his daughters to be there is a...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-11-2013, 12:49 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 580
Posted By hillymum
Quote:Originally Posted by...

Quote:Originally Posted by meemee http://www.mothering.com/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/t/1383950/distance-between-houses-for-daily-visitation#post_17379412)

for the...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-10-2013, 08:51 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 580
Posted By hillymum
Reading this thread brings back memories! Ex had...

Reading this thread brings back memories! Ex had the bright idea that the kids would stay in one house and he and I would alternate staying in the kids home! Craziest idea I had ever heard.


I...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-26-2013, 12:34 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 580
Posted By hillymum
I don't know about who would be responsible for...

I don't know about who would be responsible for travel, but I don't see how he is going to manage daily visits living that far away. My ex is about 30 minutes away and any mid week visits were a...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-22-2013, 08:41 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 499
Posted By hillymum
Honestly it doesn't sound like you will be able...

Honestly it doesn't sound like you will be able to get sole legal and physical, so go for the minimum which for me was eow and one evening every other week. Due to holidays etc this makes it a 80/20...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-13-2013, 08:06 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 314
Posted By hillymum
I would have thought you having a written letter...

I would have thought you having a written letter in each childs records saying you do not want these procedures/vaccination would be enough to prevent it.
Forum: Single Parenting   05-02-2013, 07:57 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,287
Posted By hillymum
What do his parents have to say about him not...

What do his parents have to say about him not wanting you to talk with them? If they understand and want the communication and connection why on earth would they tell him? Knowing how he would react?
Forum: Single Parenting   05-01-2013, 09:07 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 426
Posted By hillymum
WOW, you really have been through the mill! I am...

WOW, you really have been through the mill! I am so sorry you have been put through all of this. I really can't imagine.
 
Another vote for new attorney. Mine always tells me unless there is a...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-21-2013, 12:51 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,287
Posted By hillymum
Really he is sitting there prodding you hoping...

Really he is sitting there prodding you hoping for a response, and he is fully aware that you are mulling this over and over in your mind worrying about it. Other that getting legal issues...
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