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Forum: Single Parenting   08-28-2013, 04:59 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
Has anyone been to appellate court before? 

Has anyone been to appellate court before? 
Forum: Single Parenting   08-26-2013, 05:32 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 317
Posted By chefmommy
All I can say is that they allowed him to get...

All I can say is that they allowed him to get away without paying CS for 18 months. They allowed him to stalk me after my lawyer talked me into dropping the TRO for a civil order instead. Now we...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-26-2013, 05:39 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 317
Posted By chefmommy
I find it very frustrating - our legal...

I find it very frustrating - our legal system where children can be used like pawns, men do not need to be responsible for their children, judges give orders that may or may not be followed, lawyers...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-26-2013, 05:10 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
Yes, I have sent him several emails asking his...

Yes, I have sent him several emails asking his to not respond to the emails and he keeps writing back that the Judge would not like it since stbx is pro-se. Do I need to go pro-se? Scared with...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-25-2013, 08:36 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
I believe it is for trial preparedness, yet, he...

I believe it is for trial preparedness, yet, he says he won't go to trial??? I told him to cancel it. Now he says I have to go into his office to meet. We have the child support appeal in 3 weeks...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-25-2013, 07:56 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
I asked him to cancel the deposition since he...

I asked him to cancel the deposition since he said he will not allow this case to go to trial because of the high balance on the bill. Balance due to the 4 times I have had to go to court because of...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-24-2013, 04:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 365
Posted By chefmommy
Fourplusme - so sorry about your situation. I...

Fourplusme - so sorry about your situation. I have to say that the red flag for me is the fact that he won't part with his phone. What is going on with the conversations he doesn't want you to see?...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-24-2013, 12:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 212
Posted By chefmommy
So sorry you are going through this. I have just...

So sorry you are going through this. I have just made the transition to single mom about 1 year ago and I was terrified also, but,  have to say I love it, but, sometimes miss the family life and...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-24-2013, 12:41 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
He is refusing to give me copies without my...

He is refusing to give me copies without my balance being paid in full and most of this is my stbx's responsibility by court order. Furthermore he states he will not pursue my legal fees or for...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-24-2013, 05:09 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 317
Posted By chefmommy
My lawyer sends me back a message last night...

My lawyer sends me back a message last night with a message from STBX sent when he picked up the kids with vague information on it. No addresses or phones of private residences - how can he keep...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-24-2013, 05:07 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
I have thought about this so many times -...

I have thought about this so many times - starting over again - ugh! I worry that I will look like a flake, starting allover with the costs again when I already owe this one $$$! And how do I get...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-23-2013, 07:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 317
Posted By chefmommy
The orders state he is supposed to provide me...

The orders state he is supposed to provide me with an itinerary if he intends on taking them out of state. He keeps violating the orders and no one does anything about it. Child support, constant...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-23-2013, 05:56 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 317
Posted By chefmommy
STBX has picked up the kids for his vacation...

STBX has picked up the kids for his vacation week this evening, BUT, never gave me any itinerary...   Kids said he was driving them down to North Carolina or South Carolina where his parents...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-23-2013, 05:52 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
Good ideas - probably should have changes...

Good ideas - probably should have changes lawyers a long time ago, but, to start with someone new is just daunting:( I will start a binder with everything in chronological order. Have to go back in...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-07-2013, 06:48 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 452
Posted By chefmommy
I personally could not do this in my situation...

I personally could not do this in my situation because we cannot have a civil conversation without him flying off the handle. I initiated the divorce. If you truly get along well and can work...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-07-2013, 03:48 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 994
Posted By chefmommy
I agree with everyone's opinion on this. You are...

I agree with everyone's opinion on this. You are not doing anything to him. He is responsible to your children as he is their father. It is unfortunate that he has not visited with them for 4...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-07-2013, 03:39 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
Thank you for your responses. Sometimes it just...

Thank you for your responses. Sometimes it just feels good to just know someone heard you:) That site looks really interesting, but, paying $200 per year to use it is not in the budget. He would...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-06-2013, 01:07 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
No - luckily just the financial part. He is...

No - luckily just the financial part. He is however, demanding and harassing continuously. I am almost ready to go to family court because of the many violations of the restraining order. Sends me...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-05-2013, 11:15 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
sorry just so frustrated and don't understand...

sorry just so frustrated and don't understand why he would keep blocking the child support. It seems as though he would rather give the lawyer money than to support his own children:((((( 
Forum: Single Parenting   08-04-2013, 04:19 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,572
Posted By chefmommy
I have no interest in dating or a...

I have no interest in dating or a relationship and don't feel like I could ever allow anyone the chance to hurt me again. Maybe some day I will feel differently, but, right now it doesn't seem so. 
Forum: Single Parenting   08-04-2013, 04:15 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 510
Posted By chefmommy
Hello ladies - I haven't been here in a while. I...

Hello ladies - I haven't been here in a while. I switched jobs so I can have more flexible hours with the kids, but, still have been working a lot to make up for the missing income. We are now...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-04-2013, 07:54 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 183
Posted By chefmommy
I can't help but feel so stressed and frustrated...

I can't help but feel so stressed and frustrated by this entire process. My children are  still upset - especially my daughter, my credit is ruined, bill collectors are harassing me, I am losing my...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-03-2013, 06:34 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,669
Posted By chefmommy
Hello  Mamapajama - I was wondering the ages of...

Hello  Mamapajama - I was wondering the ages of your children?  I saw you mentioned they were 8 & 10 when you were going through the initial process....  I believe? My children are 10 & 12 and I...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-24-2013, 08:11 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 239
Posted By chefmommy
Hi Hillymum - temp support was established but...

Hi Hillymum - temp support was established but he never paid so I filed contempt and we had the hearing 3 months ago. but, no decision still from the judge:(  
 
I have been pleading with the...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-23-2013, 06:09 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 239
Posted By chefmommy
I have a question for you Ladies - still going -...

I have a question for you Ladies - still going - nearly 1 year already. No child support or any other money still. Had contempt hearing almost 3 months ago and no decision from the judge. My lawyer...
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