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Forum: Women's Health   11-18-2009, 04:18 PM
Replies: 75
Views: 4,434
Posted By laoxinat
Quote: Originally Posted by Talula Fairie...

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Originally Posted by Talula Fairie http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/14690914)
There are some things for which natural...
Forum: Grief and Loss   12-17-2008, 10:10 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 959
Posted By laoxinat
I love the book "Loving What Is" by Byron Katie....

I love the book "Loving What Is" by Byron Katie. She does a wonderful process called The Work, in which we get to say all the things we wish another person would do (or have done), how they shoud...
Forum: Grief and Loss   12-17-2008, 10:04 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,061
Posted By laoxinat
Quote: Originally Posted by carfreemama...

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Originally Posted by carfreemama http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/12816049)
Oh. And laoxinat, I will google your...
Forum: Grief and Loss   12-16-2008, 02:25 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,061
Posted By laoxinat
Hey carfreemama, I'm so sorry for your...

Hey carfreemama,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have no sisters, but losing any close family member is hard. I work for a home helper company, which I am sure has branches in Canada, it is called...
Forum: Unassisted Childbirth   12-13-2008, 01:08 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 5,958
Posted By laoxinat
If Dr. Leavitt in Mesa is still practicing, I'd...

If Dr. Leavitt in Mesa is still practicing, I'd trust his judgment. IDK, though, he caught my DS and that was 21 years ago! IMO, breech births can be HB'd but it is a risk, at best. The thing is,...
Forum: Grief and Loss   12-10-2008, 10:12 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 2,453
Posted By laoxinat
Quote: Originally Posted by Cherie2...

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Originally Posted by Cherie2 http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/12766243)
lol, its funny you say that, while at the...
Forum: Personal Growth   12-09-2008, 02:13 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,191
Posted By laoxinat
When DH and I were combining households, we...

When DH and I were combining households, we decluttered. My BFF loaned me a book on feng shui (sorry can't remember the title - but maybe 'Clearing your Clutter with Feng Shui') that was very...
Forum: Grief and Loss   12-09-2008, 02:01 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 2,453
Posted By laoxinat
Cherie, Thanks for posting your OP. This is...

Cherie,
Thanks for posting your OP. This is the kind of story that can really help people to see that while death may be difficult and sad, it is also part of life. When we hold death away from us...
Forum: Personal Growth   12-08-2008, 03:07 PM
Replies: 795
Views: 41,187
Posted By laoxinat
Hey Espresso! Not necessarily. To me, what the...

Hey Espresso!
Not necessarily. To me, what the work does is clarify whose business is whose. So while a situation may well be God's business ( a child's serious illness, war, poverty) this does not...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   12-08-2008, 02:47 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 395
Posted By laoxinat
Quote: Originally Posted by Toolip...

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Originally Posted by Toolip http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/12756971)
I have been turning lights on when I go over...
Forum: Grief and Loss   12-08-2008, 02:42 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,375
Posted By laoxinat
SO sorry you are dealing with this, mama. It is...

SO sorry you are dealing with this, mama. It is HARD. I'm gonna write a novel, here, please bear with me. Please know, I can't know your scenario, or what is in your heart, and that I mean nothing...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   12-08-2008, 01:48 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 395
Posted By laoxinat
If you can't go over and turn lights on/off, how...

If you can't go over and turn lights on/off, how about a timer so it looks like someone is home?
Also, maybe make some 'coupons' for babysitting, housekeeping, library runs, etc. and leave them on...
Forum: Personal Growth   12-05-2008, 05:14 PM
Replies: 795
Views: 41,187
Posted By laoxinat
Hey all!! Hey May May! I do lurk here, and...

Hey all!! Hey May May!
I do lurk here, and have been doing the work for several months. Recently, though, I came smack up against my best mirror...DH LOL!! Again, I should say. But this time I was...
Forum: Pets   10-13-2008, 03:56 PM
Replies: 132
Views: 4,884
Posted By laoxinat
I spent my last 1800 bucks for my dog's...

I spent my last 1800 bucks for my dog's urethotomy (rerouting of the urethra so bladder stones bypass the narrow bits), BUT at this point, I might not have a choice. If a vet wanted to be so kind as...
Forum: Grief and Loss   10-10-2008, 03:02 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 813
Posted By laoxinat
Hi Barbara, First a big hug. I would be...

Hi Barbara,

First a big hug. I would be demanding she gets better pain relief. A case can be made for malpractice if the docs do not provide adequate pain relief, and there are criteria for...
Forum: Spirituality   09-08-2008, 05:31 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,625
Posted By laoxinat
I am not a huge fan of informal anger therapy as...

I am not a huge fan of informal anger therapy as I find it can tend to ground people in their suffering. Formal anger therapy OTOH can be very therapeutic if done correctly. For me the key was...
Forum: Birth Professionals   08-21-2008, 06:20 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,995
Posted By laoxinat
http://www.mothering.com/img/vbsmilies/smilies/jo...

http://www.mothering.com/img/vbsmilies/smilies/joy.gif:http://www.mothering.com/img/vbsmilies/smilies/joy.gif:http://www.mothering.com/img/vbsmilies/smilies/joy.gif:
Forum: Women's Health   08-20-2008, 09:56 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 4,195
Posted By laoxinat
Will he go to the doctor? I ask because if in...

Will he go to the doctor? I ask because if in fact he does have cancer, and can get a terminal dx, medicare will pay for a lot, if not all, of hospice care. Also there are many non-profit hospices...
Forum: Grief and Loss   08-20-2008, 09:37 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 791
Posted By laoxinat
So sorry mama. But! What a beautiful gift you...

So sorry mama. But! What a beautiful gift you gave your mama-being with her in her dying. I work in hospice and all too often we see families in denial and unable to really be present. It takes such...
Forum: Birth Professionals   08-20-2008, 09:26 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,995
Posted By laoxinat
Oh how exciting mrsfru!!! I hope you are holding...

Oh how exciting mrsfru!!! I hope you are holding your babe as I type, or soon after! Congrats in advance (or not, I hope!)
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Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   08-15-2008, 03:04 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 921
Posted By laoxinat
Quote: Originally Posted by frog...

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Originally Posted by frog http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/11935218)
See, now I'm CRYING.

Surely you can feel me...
Forum: News and Current Events Archives   08-13-2008, 10:09 PM
Replies: 194
Views: 2,495
Posted By laoxinat
Quote: Originally Posted by kama'aina mama...

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Originally Posted by kama'aina mama http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/11937201)
So if you heard a couple of people...
Forum: Women's Health   08-12-2008, 11:30 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 390
Posted By laoxinat
Are you running a temp? Are you light sensitive?...

Are you running a temp? Are you light sensitive? Stiffness in the neck can be a sign of meningitis. I hope that's not it, but I'd get checked if it doesn't resolve over the next 24 hrs.
Forum: Women's Health   08-12-2008, 11:27 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,436
Posted By laoxinat
tai chi, baybee!

tai chi, baybee!
Forum: News and Current Events Archives   08-12-2008, 10:10 PM
Replies: 194
Views: 2,495
Posted By laoxinat
Right, mom2snugbugs, because without the example...

Right, mom2snugbugs, because without the example of the person being an ass, there would be no movie. If offensive behavior is portrayed for the purpose of exposing/pointing out its offensiveness, I...
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