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Forum: Single Parenting   04-25-2015, 02:29 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 295
Posted By hillymum
I agree, sounds like CPS needs to be involved,...

I agree, sounds like CPS needs to be involved, and get the child placed with relatives if she will not agree to it without CPS involvement.
Forum: Single Parenting   04-20-2015, 08:02 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,164
Posted By hillymum
Maybe he wants to see if you will co-operate on...

Maybe he wants to see if you will co-operate on other matters?
Forum: Single Parenting   04-20-2015, 01:27 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,164
Posted By hillymum
Well done!! Has he said anything else about it?

Well done!! Has he said anything else about it?
Forum: Single Parenting   04-13-2015, 10:38 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 670
Posted By hillymum
Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering...

Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering the "burden" of supporting you and your child in the future? If he is looking long term I can actually understand that. I also don't understand you...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-13-2015, 10:38 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 670
Posted By hillymum
Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering...

Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering the "burden" of supporting you and your child in the future? If he is looking long term I can actually understand that. I also don't understand you...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-02-2015, 07:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 433
Posted By hillymum
I'm concidering getting a court order forcing ex...

I'm concidering getting a court order forcing ex to produce pay stubs and tax returns, (this year and every year following for the next 6 years!) I've explained it in the private forum. He's been...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-01-2015, 06:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 357
Posted By hillymum
What Alpenglow said. I'm sorry, I can't...

What Alpenglow said.

I'm sorry, I can't imagine how hurt you felt hearing your dd's words. I would have been a wreck!
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 11:24 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 449
Posted By hillymum
That is a good reason to delay. I hope you are...

That is a good reason to delay. I hope you are fully recovered! As to moving away you may find that is not seen as being in the kids best interest, only in yours. It would make it harder for their...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 11:11 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 449
Posted By hillymum
WHy does your lawyer think delaying is beneficial?

WHy does your lawyer think delaying is beneficial?
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 10:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 378
Posted By hillymum
If your ex gets 2 lots of 2 weeks, and he gets...

If your ex gets 2 lots of 2 weeks, and he gets every other weekend, then he will get the 14 days plus his weekend. There is nothing you can do about it. The point is, he can not then tag on his...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 09:45 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 449
Posted By hillymum
So you have actually decided you want to divorce?...

So you have actually decided you want to divorce? If so then do it. The longer you put it off the harder it will be. I said divorce on Saturday night and was in an attorney's office on Tuesday.
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 07:04 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 433
Posted By hillymum
Child support review?

Has anyone actually done this and had the amount raised? I've been divorced April 2012 and haven't had a review done. I'm hesitant to as I have no clue how much ex earns now, though he used to get...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-27-2015, 06:20 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,164
Posted By hillymum
I would talk to the school as they may say if a...

I would talk to the school as they may say if a child misses that much time they have to repeat the year. Otherwise it sounds like your ex isn't a kidnapping risk.

Has he ever withheld child...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-17-2015, 09:49 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 670
Posted By hillymum
I can't work due to my immigration status. I...

I can't work due to my immigration status. I really do not want to be an American Citizan! If I apply I might be deported so it is better for me t not appy. It's a horrible situation!

Ex's parents...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-13-2015, 07:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 670
Posted By hillymum
Ex and I never discussed returning to ENgland,...

Ex and I never discussed returning to ENgland, but then again we never discussed moving over here. I can't actually work over here, but I would be able to work as a nursing assistant in England, and...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-11-2015, 08:53 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 670
Posted By hillymum
Another International custody question

Does anyone live in a different country to their childrens father? How does it work with spousal support/child support etc and visitation? Did you both start off living in AMerica and one parent...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-11-2015, 08:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 339
Posted By hillymum
I'm about to go to court to see if my children...

I'm about to go to court to see if my children and I can move back to England. I'm sorry I can't help you, but please, let us know what happens!
Forum: Single Parenting   03-08-2015, 05:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 909
Posted By hillymum
He isn't eligable for the tax credit so I would...

He isn't eligable for the tax credit so I would tell him he can go get his own copy of the ss#, then yes, I would keep an eye out to make sure no credit cards are opened using that number.
Forum: Preteens and Teens   03-04-2015, 03:19 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,507
Posted By hillymum
LOL, Zebra, when has my ex ever been in touch...

LOL, Zebra, when has my ex ever been in touch with reality????
Forum: Preteens and Teens   03-04-2015, 01:02 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,507
Posted By hillymum
Just heard back from the ex, he thinks $5 a week...

Just heard back from the ex, he thinks $5 a week would be plenty for each of the boys. Says not having any money would teach them it's value.
Forum: Preteens and Teens   03-04-2015, 08:53 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,507
Posted By hillymum
I guess this is just another way of ex to play...

I guess this is just another way of ex to play mind games with me. Lunch costs $2.50, but on pizza day ds#1 will buy extra lol. I leave it up to them if they want to save money and pack their own...
Forum: Preteens and Teens   03-03-2015, 07:31 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,507
Posted By hillymum
Pocket money?

If you give pocket money how much do you give to 14/15 year olds? My ex thinks I give my kids too much, but out of it they have to buy thier school lunches as well as save for anything they want...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-04-2015, 08:43 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 274
Posted By hillymum
Judges do not want to make that decision, you...

Judges do not want to make that decision, you will be sent to mediation, so IMO you might as well hire a lawyer between you for an hour and see what they say is normal, maybe hearing it from a lawyer...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-04-2015, 08:31 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 144
Posted By hillymum
Welcome to the group!! I'm kind of guessing...

Welcome to the group!!

I'm kind of guessing you are trying to protect your daughter in case things do not work out? It sounds like your relationship is progressing at a good, calm rate so unless...
Forum: Single Parenting   02-04-2015, 08:19 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 274
Posted By hillymum
First off, sorry to hear what you are going...

First off, sorry to hear what you are going through, you seem to have your head on straight which is pretty amazing. I hope you are patting yourself on the back for that!
You are right, keeping...
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