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Forum: Personal Growth   11-09-2012, 11:48 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Dear Mothers,   Here i am years later. ...

Dear Mothers,
 
Here i am years later.  Still living, working, cleaning, mothering through this exerience.  Back needing support.  Guidance.
 
My dear son is now 8, little girl 3.
 
Their dad...
Forum: Personal Growth   08-05-2010, 02:47 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Thanks you all! Well nothing to do but keep...

Thanks you all!
Well nothing to do but keep on!
Yes, you all are right ! It sucks! boggles the mind!

And yes, when supervised visitation starts - THIS WEEK! I will be the one here to pick up...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-02-2010, 07:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 450
Posted By tgrlilly
Hi - Im a single mom in Albuquerque wondering...

Hi -
Im a single mom in Albuquerque wondering if there are any others out there who might like to get together? or if there is a group here?

I need to get out of the house and make some friends!
Forum: Texas, Oklahoma, New Mexico   08-02-2010, 07:34 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,789
Posted By tgrlilly
Hi-I have been very happy with Dr. David...

Hi-I have been very happy with Dr. David Martinez - he does use the pappose method, but DS said it felt like he was in the sling. (this was a few years back). We still see him and I am happy. Good...
Forum: Personal Growth   08-02-2010, 07:28 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hello All, Well for an updte, the DA has...

Hello All,

Well for an updte, the DA has dropped the case against my kids dad, and it has me down. Any support you can send my way would be appreciated as I am low.

Any tips for a single mom...
Forum: Personal Growth   05-05-2010, 03:43 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Thank you, and I am so sorry for what you had to...

Thank you, and I am so sorry for what you had to go through. I do not fully understand what the culture or compulsion of women, mothers... to cover this stuff up! I know just how hard it is to face...
Forum: Personal Growth   05-04-2010, 02:01 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hi all- I wanted to post an update - it has...

Hi all-
I wanted to post an update - it has been a long time, and I am still grateful for your all support when times were so rough a year ago.

My son and daughter are doing well. My mom moved...
Forum: Texas, Oklahoma, New Mexico   01-25-2010, 03:22 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 448
Posted By tgrlilly
Hi- Sorry I never replied!! Did you end up...

Hi-
Sorry I never replied!!
Did you end up moving to El Paso?
How is it going??
Good I hope!
Forum: Texas, Oklahoma, New Mexico   01-25-2010, 03:15 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 205
Posted By tgrlilly
Hello Mamas - I am looking for great childcare...

Hello Mamas -
I am looking for great childcare for the lights-of-my-life?

My baby is 5 months old and my 5 year old will need care during APS holidays.

Do you provide child care or can you...
Forum: Personal Growth   12-07-2009, 04:21 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
hi! just checking in. we are all ok..still some...

hi! just checking in. we are all ok..still some downs but many more ups!
still waiting on DA to see what if anything happens, still working on all the other isseus.

DS and lil baby girl are both...
Forum: Personal Growth   09-29-2009, 02:27 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
wow jessjoy. thank u for sharing your really...

wow jessjoy. thank u for sharing your really intense experiences. it is so timely. im in these 1/wk sessions with my x to see if supervised visitation is "appropriate" etc. it is so intense to sit...
Forum: Personal Growth   09-04-2009, 05:33 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Thank you all so much! It is so good to...

Thank you all so much!

It is so good to have baby here. It is not easy still isn't today rough day all this crap w x. its so hard to believe i even have to deal with him like he is an equal after...
Forum: Personal Growth   08-31-2009, 05:52 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hello! Baby is here! She is a beautiful...

Hello!

Baby is here! She is a beautiful little baby 8 lbs born at home - a really peaceful and wonderful birth. I am so happy she is healthy and I was able to stay home.

We are doing well - ds...
Forum: Breastfeeding   08-09-2009, 12:14 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 806
Posted By tgrlilly
Thanks for the advise...I can see this is going...

Thanks for the advise...I can see this is going to be a whole new experience...with my ds it was nursing on demand, etc. for the first two years so supply was never an issue...

working full time...
Forum: Breastfeeding   08-07-2009, 10:47 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 806
Posted By tgrlilly
I'm getting ready to have my second child. I was...

I'm getting ready to have my second child. I was a SAHM for my first and used an electric pump from time to time (which I gave away). I will have to go back to work with this little one and am...
Forum: Personal Growth   08-07-2009, 01:05 AM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hi All! Thanks for the great support!! ...

Hi All! Thanks for the great support!!

Today I'm back on an even keel..my attny drafted a much better document reflecting the reality the rest of us are living in!! lol

Can't believe I'm about...
Forum: Personal Growth   08-05-2009, 02:34 AM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hi! Nope, still pregnant!! Any day soon, I just...

Hi! Nope, still pregnant!! Any day soon, I just went on maternity leave and am 'nesting' like crazy...trying to get all this stuff done! Its mostly fun, but I feel for ds - so many changes, etc. and...
Forum: Personal Growth   07-14-2009, 05:22 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Oh thank you all! seriously those were some hard...

Oh thank you all! seriously those were some hard days and coming here to mdc and receiving support and great advise helped so much!

I know its not over yet, but thank goodness for a break at...
Forum: Personal Growth   07-14-2009, 05:18 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,390
Posted By tgrlilly
hi! that is a strange one - I would say it's...

hi! that is a strange one - I would say it's good she is no longer your DCP...I can see how if you said something it could look like you were overreacting...maybe you could post something about how...
Forum: Personal Growth   07-11-2009, 06:35 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hello - Just a quick update. Baby is due in...

Hello - Just a quick update.

Baby is due in just about a month!! wow.. we are getting ready for that.

The last month or so I've been...gasp...happy!
Things for us are going pretty well. DS...
Forum: Personal Growth   06-29-2009, 01:46 PM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hello All! Yes, it has been a long time since...

Hello All!
Yes, it has been a long time since I've posted last. Thank you for your support and for checking in.

Right now things are going well - I sometimes think its the calm before the storm...
Forum: Personal Growth   06-11-2009, 11:01 AM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Thank you for the support - again things are...

Thank you for the support - again things are getting hard.
After he was served with the custody petition the backlash just starts building again. I got the closure papers from CPS and the...
Forum: Personal Growth   06-02-2009, 11:55 AM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hi All- Well, I had the lawyer go ahead with...

Hi All-
Well, I had the lawyer go ahead with the process of having him served for child custody.

We are doing alright. There are so many decisions to make (about moving or not) and with the...
Forum: Personal Growth   05-20-2009, 10:55 AM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Oh - great advise. As for handling it with...

Oh - great advise. As for handling it with grace, I don't know - I'm doing my best, but I do have my days...

I have to agree with all of you - when trying to talk with ex about some agreement...
Forum: Personal Growth   05-18-2009, 10:54 AM
Replies: 415
Views: 59,001
Posted By tgrlilly
Hi all - just a quick update - I filed for...

Hi all - just a quick update -
I filed for custody and then got permission to talk with ex about it - he said that he would fight tooth and nail unless we came up with an agreement together. I am...
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