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Forum: Life with a Toddler   07-01-2011, 09:26 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 429
Posted By Cybercere
So, DD was born 7 lbs, 15 ounces and 20 inches...

So, DD was born 7 lbs, 15 ounces and 20 inches long. She ended up in NICU for 10 days at birth due to meconium aspiration pneumonia. She was then breastfeeding almost exclusively ( a bit of formula)...
Forum: Life with a Toddler   04-08-2011, 02:53 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,400
Posted By Cybercere
Thank you for the post and the...

Thank you for the post and the questions/support. I did have an IV before she was born (was Group B Strep positive) and she ended up in NICU for 10 days at birth but she was 8 lbs 2 oz when she left...
Forum: Nutrition and Good Eating   04-07-2011, 07:08 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 368
Posted By Cybercere
So, my 15 1/2 mo DD is only 18.6 pounds (was...

So, my 15 1/2 mo DD is only 18.6 pounds (was just under 8 lbs at birth). got "failure to thrive" blood tests back and she's borderline low in prealbumin so doc wants us to see ped. nutritionist. I'm...
Forum: Life with a Toddler   04-07-2011, 05:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,400
Posted By Cybercere
I'm so upset. My DD is 15 1/2 months old. she is...

I'm so upset. My DD is 15 1/2 months old. she is 2% weight and 5-7% height. Was 7 lb 15 oz at birth and growing more in the 20th percentile until she was 4 months old. Then she slowed down. She is...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-24-2011, 09:07 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 543
Posted By Cybercere
I only interact with him sometimes at work but I...

I only interact with him sometimes at work but I see him frequently - it's an environment where we all do a lot of walking so it's inevitable. I feel like someone kicked me in the stomach most of...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-23-2011, 08:16 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 543
Posted By Cybercere
I get paid very very well and have a very...

I get paid very very well and have a very flexible schedule. And I love my job, so another one isn't really around. I have resigned myself to feeling awful. I still cry every single day and usually...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-16-2011, 01:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 543
Posted By Cybercere
It's been exactly one year since I found out my...

It's been exactly one year since I found out my ex was sleeping with our nanny when our baby was just 8 weeks old. It's been exactly 9 months since he left to return to his crazy ex. He hasn't filed...
Forum: Breastfeeding Beyond Infancy   12-28-2010, 09:31 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,381
Posted By Cybercere
Thanks all. We are military so pediatrician...

Thanks all. We are military so pediatrician change not really an option and I usually really like him. It's also ironic to me that he grew up in India, slept with his parents til he was 7 and I'm...
Forum: Breastfeeding Beyond Infancy   12-27-2010, 12:03 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,381
Posted By Cybercere
So, DD is one tomorrow. I pump once a day at...

So, DD is one tomorrow. I pump once a day at work (I only work part-time) and between that and the "stash" she's gotten very little formula since birth (maybe 4-5 ounces a week). She is moving to...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-25-2010, 03:29 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 598
Posted By Cybercere
Thank you. I know you are right. His argument is...

Thank you. I know you are right. His argument is that he left his 4 year old (divorced his mother) when that DS was 1 1/2. As soon as he left me this summer, he went to live there because it was...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-24-2010, 01:08 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 598
Posted By Cybercere
Thank you. I don't know if meds are the answer....

Thank you. I don't know if meds are the answer. I think that the depression I'm feeling is based on the situation and not a physiological thing. I exercise, eat right, am seeing a therapist,...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-24-2010, 11:52 AM
Replies: 24
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Views: 1,364
Posted By Cybercere
What about Canada? If he can get a visa to...

What about Canada? If he can get a visa to Mexico, he's likely to be able to go to Canada as well and it's much more US friendly. DO NOT give him your children's passports under ANY condition. If...
Forum: Single Parenting   12-24-2010, 11:44 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 598
Posted By Cybercere
So, my DD will be one next week. Last year at...

So, my DD will be one next week. Last year at this time, I was so in love with her father and we were celebrating Christmas with his other children, and my older child, and all happily looking...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-30-2010, 02:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 471
Posted By Cybercere
That's tough. Really tough. Sounds like you want...

That's tough. Really tough. Sounds like you want to work it out? I desperately wish me and ex could work it out. He left to go back to his ex-wife (who he had convinced everyone he hated). It broke...
Forum: Montessori   11-30-2010, 02:18 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 305
Posted By Cybercere
My daughter is almost one and I've begun to look...

My daughter is almost one and I've begun to look at the two Montessori Schools near us (Chesapeake Montessori and Montessori International). She could start probably at 15-16 months. She goes to an...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-28-2010, 08:08 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,282
Posted By Cybercere
yes, that's me - the one with the totally f-ed...

yes, that's me - the one with the totally f-ed up life. I do not want him on the bc. I do not want his money. I want him to fade away someday. I do not want my daughter away from me, especially...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-28-2010, 06:50 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,282
Posted By Cybercere
Thank you - I printed this out and have posted...

Thank you - I printed this out and have posted it on my desk at home and at work next to my phone. I am in therapy but have primarily been dealing with my total devastation at him sleeping with our...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-27-2010, 09:44 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,282
Posted By Cybercere
Yes, I tried that for a while. Unfortunately,...

Yes, I tried that for a while. Unfortunately, for now, we work together and me not talking to him and not letting him see DD made things a million times worse. I am trying to get along with him to...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-27-2010, 09:06 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,282
Posted By Cybercere
So, I am currently involved in a potential...

So, I am currently involved in a potential custody battle (read my other posts for that story) but I'm coming to the conclusion that one of the biggest problems I'm facing is that my ex is a bully....
Forum: Single Parenting   11-27-2010, 08:54 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 325
Posted By Cybercere
Bio dad is threatening. My husband is happy to...

Bio dad is threatening. My husband is happy to help me raise her even if we decided to divorce. I think you're right re: child support. I've said he can see her and want nothing. I wonder if anyone...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-27-2010, 08:00 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 325
Posted By Cybercere
My daughter is one and her biological dad left...

My daughter is one and her biological dad left us when she was 4 months old. Since that time, he's seen her about 10-12 hours a month for short 3-4 hour visits. Because I was still married when she...
Forum: Maryland, Metro D.C. Area, Delaware   11-27-2010, 07:51 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 292
Posted By Cybercere
My daughter is almost one and I've begun to look...

My daughter is almost one and I've begun to look at the two Montessori Schools near us (Chesapeake Montessori and Montessori International). She could start probably at 15-16 months. She goes to an...
Forum: Maryland, Metro D.C. Area, Delaware   09-13-2010, 05:11 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 12,804
Posted By Cybercere
Quote: Originally Posted by fallenembers...

Quote:
Originally Posted by fallenembers http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/15799984)
Just wanted to see if anyone has advice...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-23-2010, 03:46 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,036
Posted By Cybercere
ThiS is the worse thing that has ever happened...

ThiS is the worse thing that has ever happened to me. It makes me not want to wake up. VisitAtion is ok. Having her live away 50% of the time isn't. At her age that would be extremely detrimental to...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-23-2010, 03:34 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,036
Posted By Cybercere
Thanks. I feel worse now. Yes the ex has been...

Thanks. I feel worse now. Yes the ex has been diagnosed and she was on meds. Nevermind, I feel like just giving up completely sometimes. I am a good role model much better. That's objective. I just...
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