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Forum: Single Parenting   06-07-2013, 09:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 218
Posted By chikeemomma
Those of you who are already dealing with ex's...

Those of you who are already dealing with ex's or soon to be ex's....how do you emotionally handle visitation? How do you deal with watching your kids leave for an entire weekend? I've always been...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   02-15-2013, 04:08 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Thank you all for the support. I'm still in the...

Thank you all for the support. I'm still in the midst of deciding what to do. I really with all my heart want to keep my family together....I just wish that h would even feel the slightest remorse...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-25-2013, 08:45 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
His family meeting the child stirred up so many...

His family meeting the child stirred up so many emotions. They....H's parents and siblings....immediately accepted the child...they've all gotten together and taken child to parades...little league...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-24-2013, 07:53 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
I don't know how old child is.....just...

I don't know how old child is.....just approximation....says he doesn't remember.....all he's given me is a month....famuly members on H's side already have relationship with this child.....
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-24-2013, 03:01 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Hi everyone. Thank you all for your support....I...

Hi everyone. Thank you all for your support....I have not had a chance to read all posts yet but do want to add that ow did know h was married with children.
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-23-2013, 07:46 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Im so grateful that there is a place like this...

Im so grateful that there is a place like this where I can come to and feel safe to vent and ask for advice. You all are so awesome! If it weren't for this community I would have no where to turn...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-23-2013, 07:13 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Thank you so much lil green. I'm trying to do my...

Thank you so much lil green. I'm trying to do my best for my own. They are my life.
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-23-2013, 06:57 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Banana 731... he did not tell me of the child...

Banana 731... he did not tell me of the child til she was over a year old. I did not even know she existed at this point. Apparently he had been picking up the child all along and taking her...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-23-2013, 06:52 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
He has been pretty cold and matter of fact of...

He has been pretty cold and matter of fact of the situation. Its unbelievable. He's nit asked me anything about how I'm feeling or anything fir that matter.

When I do ask him anything and I mean...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-23-2013, 05:49 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Yes....that's what I think...rug sweeping...he...

Yes....that's what I think...rug sweeping...he says it happened and there's nothing that can be done about it....the child is here and that's that...

He wont tell me much of anything of their...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-23-2013, 05:17 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
I think it really bothers him that he has to...

I think it really bothers him that he has to find places to take child for several hours instead of just being able to bring her to our house and hang out....that would be easier.
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-23-2013, 05:14 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Currently h sees the child about 3-4 times a...

Currently h sees the child about 3-4 times a week...according to what he tells me....they meet in a parking lot and do the exchange...he then takes child to eat and other places....sometimes to walk...
Forum: Single Parenting   01-23-2013, 05:09 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,068
Posted By chikeemomma
A no fault state

A no fault state
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-23-2013, 02:23 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
I'm so thankful for everyone's responses. I...

I'm so thankful for everyone's responses. I haven't had a chance to read them all but I will this evening.

I do want to add a few details. Ow is pushing for siblings to meet (according to h). She...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-21-2013, 12:36 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Whichever direction I decide to take....I still...

Whichever direction I decide to take....I still have to explain this child to my own....because at some point they will be introduced to this child.

If someone can offer some advice as to how to...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2013, 05:00 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Thank you for the "ear". Its so hard because I...

Thank you for the "ear". Its so hard because I don't have any friends to talk too....

Everyone is so supportive here....
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2013, 04:36 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
It definitely feels shameful....I feel very...

It definitely feels shameful....I feel very embarrassed about the whole situation... I feel very angry...bitter....resentful....my kids are what keep me going...
People don't deserve to go through...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2013, 04:21 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Where would free help be available? I did manage...

Where would free help be available? I did manage to go to one counseling appt under my insurance but couldn't afford to go more than that.

A&A that is so true. I wonder that 24/7. Especially when...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2013, 03:51 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Yes....its been heart wrenching. We have two...

Yes....its been heart wrenching. We have two young ones....3 and 6. I have no idea how to begin explaining this to them. H wants them to meet at some point...so far he has respected my wishes to...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   01-20-2013, 03:32 PM
Replies: 140
Views: 6,053
Posted By chikeemomma
Has anyone done this or know of anyone who has?

Has anyone done this or know of anyone who has?
Forum: Single Parenting   11-21-2012, 07:22 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,068
Posted By chikeemomma
Yes, I believe he expected to tell me and that...

Yes, I believe he expected to tell me and that all would go on fine and dandy.  He has an okay relationship with our children.  Not like he ignores them or anything but it's not like he sits on the...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-21-2012, 04:56 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,068
Posted By chikeemomma
Hello Ladies,   I am so thankful to you all...

Hello Ladies,
 
I am so thankful to you all for your kind words and support.  It's amazing how people who don't even know me can be so kind...I'm not used to that. 
 
I am hanging in there.  I...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-12-2012, 10:57 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,068
Posted By chikeemomma
Hi Everyone.  Thank you all so, so, so much for...

Hi Everyone.  Thank you all so, so, so much for your replies and kind words.  I have set up an appointment with a therapist for next week and am looking forward to going.  I am hoping to gain some...
Forum: Single Parenting   11-08-2012, 06:35 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,068
Posted By chikeemomma
Hello All,   I have posted a thread about...

Hello All,
 
I have posted a thread about this before and for some reason got nervous about it and deleted.  I had just found out about the whole thing so I was feeling very emotional and...
Forum: Single Parenting   10-30-2012, 09:03 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 382
Posted By chikeemomma
Hello Hereyes...I would like to PM you to share...

Hello Hereyes...I would like to PM you to share stories but I apparently do not have permission to sent private messages(?)...not sure how this works or if I have to earn this privelege through...
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