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Forum: Single Parenting   06-09-2011, 08:36 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,504
Posted By AttunedMama
Never tell someone you 'want' a divorce. Just...

Never tell someone you 'want' a divorce. Just file. "I want a divorce" is often interpreted as "Let's talk more about the relationship, and what I want!"
 
If you are decided that you are done,...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-03-2011, 12:19 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,496
Posted By AttunedMama
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Quote:Originally Posted by *MamaJen* http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Parenting   06-03-2011, 08:42 AM
Replies: 223
Views: 9,490
Posted By AttunedMama
Yay for Mama Kathy. What a wonderful...

Yay for Mama Kathy. What a wonderful conversation that her family has helped to push along. I know the world is currently run-over with people who can't cope, but that can't stop her from living the...
Forum: Parenting   06-03-2011, 08:26 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,412
Posted By AttunedMama
I have taken my kids to a wildlife rehab place,...

I have taken my kids to a wildlife rehab place, where local creatures who have been screwed over by civilization can live in relatively safe captivity. Moreover, my children live in a forest and are...
Forum: Personal Growth   06-03-2011, 07:53 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,313
Posted By AttunedMama
Role play it out with a friend, or therapist. ...

Role play it out with a friend, or therapist.
 
Start discerning between helping people and getting parasited...it can be a fine line sometimes! Some folks are really good, laterally-balanced...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-03-2011, 07:45 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 997
Posted By AttunedMama
Troll or not, it's way beyond the scope of a...

Troll or not, it's way beyond the scope of a message board, oy.
Forum: Parenting   06-02-2011, 06:58 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,412
Posted By AttunedMama
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Quote:Originally Posted by Marsupialmom http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-02-2011, 06:44 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,496
Posted By AttunedMama
Yeah. It's painful to see how many mental...

Yeah. It's painful to see how many mental gymnastics you're putting yourself through. MamaJen.
 
I say: It shows your child the utmost respect for you to expect the other parent to pay. I would...
Forum: Personal Growth   06-02-2011, 06:07 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,238
Posted By AttunedMama
Personal counseling is the way. That is where...

Personal counseling is the way. That is where you clarify your own worth, and make deliberate decisions about how to support that worth. "Marriage" counseling in this situation is not going to...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-02-2011, 04:24 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,496
Posted By AttunedMama
Girl, you need to file.

Girl, you need to file.
Forum: Parenting   06-01-2011, 07:52 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,412
Posted By AttunedMama
 Quote:Originally Posted by Annie...



Quote:Originally Posted by Annie Mac http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Parenting   06-01-2011, 06:05 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,412
Posted By AttunedMama
So. I've got kids. They go to a supposedly...

So. I've got kids. They go to a supposedly progressive school. Now, at the end of the year, the classes are being taken on a field trip to a local zoo. Not an orchard, not a recycling station, not...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   06-01-2011, 05:53 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 917
Posted By AttunedMama
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Quote:Originally Posted by mumm http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/thread/1314756/pampers-commercial/20#post_16478383)

I must...
Forum: Parenting   06-01-2011, 12:07 PM
Replies: 109
Views: 6,827
Posted By AttunedMama
nm. I was way late on this thread.

nm. I was way late on this thread.
Forum: Personal Growth   06-01-2011, 11:44 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 849
Posted By AttunedMama
After years of getting better and better after...

After years of getting better and better after being raised (largely) by deniers, I advise not to go, and instead check in with a progressive and savvy therapist. Someone who won't spend time...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   05-31-2011, 06:01 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 768
Posted By AttunedMama
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Quote:Originally Posted by MadiMamacita http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   05-31-2011, 04:48 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 917
Posted By AttunedMama
Am I the only one that finds this sort of stuff...

Am I the only one that finds this sort of stuff downright insulting/predatory?
Forum: Single Parenting   05-31-2011, 01:28 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 437
Posted By AttunedMama
Girl! Change your post title to "i'm not YET...

Girl! Change your post title to "i'm not YET tough enough to stop being ex's mommy", for a psychological boost of hope.
Forum: Single Parenting   05-31-2011, 01:26 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 851
Posted By AttunedMama
Yes, yes, yes to emotional boundaries.   ...

Yes, yes, yes to emotional boundaries.
 
Just want to chime in to say, be prepared for him to backlash on you when you "fail" to take his bait. He'll probably try stronger bait, at least a few...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-28-2011, 08:21 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 489
Posted By AttunedMama
We keep relationships because they illuminate...

We keep relationships because they illuminate our lives, enhance our days, stretch us into wonderful directions that we weren't taking ourselves. We are unwise to keep relationships because we don't...
Forum: Personal Growth   05-28-2011, 07:32 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,246
Posted By AttunedMama
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Quote:Originally Posted by mommytimes2 http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   05-27-2011, 05:02 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 801
Posted By AttunedMama
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Quote:Originally Posted by PhoenixMommaToTwo http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Parenting   05-26-2011, 02:49 PM
Replies: 223
Views: 9,490
Posted By AttunedMama
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Quote:Originally Posted by lovelylisa http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif...
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   05-26-2011, 02:12 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 801
Posted By AttunedMama
I would find a totally, fully, completely...

I would find a totally, fully, completely different set of friends to kick it with. The Pearls? That's bats**t.
Forum: Talk Amongst Ourselves   05-26-2011, 08:17 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 801
Posted By AttunedMama
My experience indicates that folks like this...

My experience indicates that folks like this become twice as defensive when the C"P"S comes knocking. My philosophy is, if the kids are in need of a serious "change of scenery", then call. If a...
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