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Forum: Single Parenting   06-27-2015, 10:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 430
Posted By hillymum
What Alpenglow said. Stop giving his gf your...

What Alpenglow said. Stop giving his gf your kids. You don't need to be strict about your parenting plan, but sounds like you are totally ignoring it which can bit you in the ass later on, when ex...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-19-2015, 05:37 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 241
Posted By hillymum
Hi, welcome back to MDC. Your circumstances are...

Hi, welcome back to MDC. Your circumstances are particularly difficult! I am sorry your friends don't seem to see behind the mask you must wear every day. That myust add yet another layer of...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-01-2015, 01:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 494
Posted By hillymum
I wouldn't cancel any kind of school for parental...

I wouldn't cancel any kind of school for parental visitation. Not a good president to set. He can pick her up after preschool and return her in the evening.
Forum: Single Parenting   06-01-2015, 01:18 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 361
Posted By hillymum
I can't offer any advice other than build a...

I can't offer any advice other than build a network of friends to help support each other, and ignore the comment above as it was totally uncalled for and rude.
Forum: Single Parenting   05-15-2015, 05:41 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 345
Posted By hillymum
I;m sorry! It is inappropriate, hurtful and...

I;m sorry! It is inappropriate, hurtful and thoughtless. It is also not your place to make your son feel bad if he wants to help his dad celebrate his wedding. Your ex cheated on you, not your child....
Forum: Single Parenting   05-12-2015, 08:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 273
Posted By hillymum
If you google "divorce process in NC" quite a few...

If you google "divorce process in NC" quite a few website come up including this one (http://www.divorcenet.com/resources/filing-for-divorce/north-carolina.htm).
Forum: Single Parenting   05-08-2015, 05:48 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,095
Posted By hillymum
That is very true, and that is when court orders...

That is very true, and that is when court orders need to be changed.

I really think fathers get to slither out of their childrens lives far too easily. It is our job to encourage the continuation...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-08-2015, 02:31 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,095
Posted By hillymum
It really does sound like you need to be stronger...

It really does sound like you need to be stronger in setting boundaries, with your ex, (stop cancelling on kids), dh (if you can't be sympathetic at least DON'T ADD TO THE ISSUE), and to older...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-06-2015, 04:44 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 476
Posted By hillymum
If at all possible she needs the real docuents as...

If at all possible she needs the real docuents as copies are not legally accepted for anything really.
Forum: Single Parenting   05-06-2015, 04:41 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,095
Posted By hillymum
Lostwife, I don't think your husband is being...

Lostwife, I don't think your husband is being unreasonable. If the two of you were expecting time without children and your ex changes plans at the last minute, that is your ex being unreasonable. I...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-04-2015, 08:55 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 504
Posted By hillymum
Meetup is amazing!! I took up kayaking 2 summers...

Meetup is amazing!! I took up kayaking 2 summers ago, and now own three kayaks and have 4 trips planned with the local group. Who ever invented it deserves a medal!!

Learning to be by yourself...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-03-2015, 07:20 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 504
Posted By hillymum
You make plans, get out og the house, take up a...

You make plans, get out og the house, take up a new hobby, start going to the gym, reconnect with old friends. I don't know if it's something you ever get used to, but there are ways of making it...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-25-2015, 02:29 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 565
Posted By hillymum
I agree, sounds like CPS needs to be involved,...

I agree, sounds like CPS needs to be involved, and get the child placed with relatives if she will not agree to it without CPS involvement.
Forum: Single Parenting   04-20-2015, 08:02 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,802
Posted By hillymum
Maybe he wants to see if you will co-operate on...

Maybe he wants to see if you will co-operate on other matters?
Forum: Single Parenting   04-20-2015, 01:27 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,802
Posted By hillymum
Well done!! Has he said anything else about it?

Well done!! Has he said anything else about it?
Forum: Single Parenting   04-13-2015, 10:38 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,095
Posted By hillymum
Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering...

Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering the "burden" of supporting you and your child in the future? If he is looking long term I can actually understand that. I also don't understand you...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-13-2015, 10:38 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,095
Posted By hillymum
Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering...

Does your bf feel like he will end up shouldering the "burden" of supporting you and your child in the future? If he is looking long term I can actually understand that. I also don't understand you...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-02-2015, 07:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 557
Posted By hillymum
I'm concidering getting a court order forcing ex...

I'm concidering getting a court order forcing ex to produce pay stubs and tax returns, (this year and every year following for the next 6 years!) I've explained it in the private forum. He's been...
Forum: Single Parenting   04-01-2015, 06:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 596
Posted By hillymum
What Alpenglow said. I'm sorry, I can't...

What Alpenglow said.

I'm sorry, I can't imagine how hurt you felt hearing your dd's words. I would have been a wreck!
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 11:24 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 576
Posted By hillymum
That is a good reason to delay. I hope you are...

That is a good reason to delay. I hope you are fully recovered! As to moving away you may find that is not seen as being in the kids best interest, only in yours. It would make it harder for their...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 11:11 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 576
Posted By hillymum
WHy does your lawyer think delaying is beneficial?

WHy does your lawyer think delaying is beneficial?
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 10:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 511
Posted By hillymum
If your ex gets 2 lots of 2 weeks, and he gets...

If your ex gets 2 lots of 2 weeks, and he gets every other weekend, then he will get the 14 days plus his weekend. There is nothing you can do about it. The point is, he can not then tag on his...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 09:45 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 576
Posted By hillymum
So you have actually decided you want to divorce?...

So you have actually decided you want to divorce? If so then do it. The longer you put it off the harder it will be. I said divorce on Saturday night and was in an attorney's office on Tuesday.
Forum: Single Parenting   03-28-2015, 07:04 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 557
Posted By hillymum
Child support review?

Has anyone actually done this and had the amount raised? I've been divorced April 2012 and haven't had a review done. I'm hesitant to as I have no clue how much ex earns now, though he used to get...
Forum: Single Parenting   03-27-2015, 06:20 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,802
Posted By hillymum
I would talk to the school as they may say if a...

I would talk to the school as they may say if a child misses that much time they have to repeat the year. Otherwise it sounds like your ex isn't a kidnapping risk.

Has he ever withheld child...
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