I never thought I'd write a post like this...
DH and I just reconciled after a years separation. We were apart but always trying to work things out, and at all times agreed to remain faithful to our marriage although separated. I've had issues in the past of him lying to me, and in fact just a few months ago found out he was hiding a porn addiction and lying about it. Now we're working through things, our relationship has been amazing, and we just got a place together - we're moving tomorrow. Well last night he had his email up, and I noticed a weird email and clicked on it. It was from ashleymadison.com - a site for people who are looking to have an affair!!!!! He said he had no idea what it was, that it was spam, and pointed to another email to prove that he was getting weird spam. The other email was from adultfriendfinder.com, which turns out he has an old account to, with very detailed personal info so there's no way he can claim it's spam. The first site though, was created shortly after we separated, but right now there's nothing in his inbox or outbox there, I think it's auto erased after 30 days. So I can't prove he did anything, but he wants me to believe someone hacked into some account somewhere and made a profile for him with his personal info! Am I the only one that thinks that's the most idiotic lie ever?
I feel like I shouldn't move tomorrow, or that I need to hire a PI. He's pissed that I won't believe him, but even if this bizarre story was true, how can I believe him when he's lied about sexual issues before?
So my question is, can that stuff really happen with hacking and spam, and what do you all think of this? I feel insane, and now need to work this out by tomorrow!
DH and I just reconciled after a years separation. We were apart but always trying to work things out, and at all times agreed to remain faithful to our marriage although separated. I've had issues in the past of him lying to me, and in fact just a few months ago found out he was hiding a porn addiction and lying about it. Now we're working through things, our relationship has been amazing, and we just got a place together - we're moving tomorrow. Well last night he had his email up, and I noticed a weird email and clicked on it. It was from ashleymadison.com - a site for people who are looking to have an affair!!!!! He said he had no idea what it was, that it was spam, and pointed to another email to prove that he was getting weird spam. The other email was from adultfriendfinder.com, which turns out he has an old account to, with very detailed personal info so there's no way he can claim it's spam. The first site though, was created shortly after we separated, but right now there's nothing in his inbox or outbox there, I think it's auto erased after 30 days. So I can't prove he did anything, but he wants me to believe someone hacked into some account somewhere and made a profile for him with his personal info! Am I the only one that thinks that's the most idiotic lie ever?
I feel like I shouldn't move tomorrow, or that I need to hire a PI. He's pissed that I won't believe him, but even if this bizarre story was true, how can I believe him when he's lied about sexual issues before?
So my question is, can that stuff really happen with hacking and spam, and what do you all think of this? I feel insane, and now need to work this out by tomorrow!