I just filed on Monday and have asked STBX to leave for the duration. He says he feels fine at home, not tense at all, and that leaving would be disruptive for the kids. He says he's sorry I feel tense.
I understand why he'd want to stay in his home, but really, it feels more of the same, he is getting what he wants, diminishing my concerns. (I feel fine, no tension at all, sorry about you.) I have filed a petition for temporary use of the the house, and I am fairly certain the court will grant it (according to my lawyer). I might ask my lawyer again about moving out since a friend has offered to lend me the security deposit.
I can't even face my neighbors, they KNOW something is up, but if I tell them, the kids risk finding out. I've been trying to be civil about this, but I think I might just need to tell him I can't stand being in his presence and detail exactly why.
There's no real point of this, I'm venting, trying not to scream around the kids.
I understand why he'd want to stay in his home, but really, it feels more of the same, he is getting what he wants, diminishing my concerns. (I feel fine, no tension at all, sorry about you.) I have filed a petition for temporary use of the the house, and I am fairly certain the court will grant it (according to my lawyer). I might ask my lawyer again about moving out since a friend has offered to lend me the security deposit.
I can't even face my neighbors, they KNOW something is up, but if I tell them, the kids risk finding out. I've been trying to be civil about this, but I think I might just need to tell him I can't stand being in his presence and detail exactly why.
There's no real point of this, I'm venting, trying not to scream around the kids.