Reading at Three

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Judy Arnall

Attachment Parenting, Non-punitive Discipline, Homeschooling

Judy Arnall

My oldest daughter will be three-years-old in November and is showing a huge interest in learning to read and write. So I bought a bunch of curriculum to work on, knowing I would need to take it slow. Is she really too young to be taught? We plan on homeschooling our children for all of their school years. I just don't want to start too young, and overwhelm her. What do you recommend?

Most homeschoolers tend to go overboard on the curriculum the first year or so. That's why there are so many workbooks and books at used curriculum sales! When we take the time to watch how our children learn and let go of so many of our ideas of what learning looks like, then we can really see how much they learn by osmosis and by living in a rich environment with lots of fun resources. Many learning outcomes can be taught by using books, art supplies, games, field trips, puppets, dress-up clothes, paint, blocks, building materials, and other resources. That being said, when the interest strikes, go for it! If your daughter wants to learn how to read and write, let her lead and you can provide materials, field trips, and resources. Observe her and see if the interest sustains. Keep providing her with things to do and learn until she says enough. And when she says enough, respect her choice. The interests usually resurface again when she is developmentally ready for the next stage of learning. Play, relax, and learn. Watch and take your cues from her. Enjoy the ride!



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