Wow I'm so sorry that sounds awful!
I am just guessing how things will be and maybe I am overworrying, maybe I'm not. It just sucks that when I first found out I was pregnant I didn't feel excitement and instead felt worried and scared.
Like I said before I usually don't say anything if something is bothering me and just deal with it but once baby is here, I am going to. For example, they drink all the time and swear and I don't want my baby around that so will definitely speak up.
The worst thing is that his mom knows I want to be a stay at home mom and is not happy. She makes more money than his dad and works a lot and only had 2 kids and I don't feel like she was born to be a mother. I feel like we are very different and all I want to do is raise my kids and don't need nice things. I would rather be the one to see them everyday instead of sitting in an office to have nicer things.
I don't feel like talking to her would help and we are just different and will never agree. And I don't think she would agree or listen to anything. I am just going to take the approach of avoiding and spending as least time as I can over there.
Also awhile ago when we told them I was pregnant she said her and her mom would come over and sleep over for the first few nights... uh NO!
I may be tired but have a husband and will want to be by ourselves....