Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Westchester, NY
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i went back to work tonight after losing my pregnancy this weekend...but I didn't tell anyone (I was only 10 weeks so I wasn't showing and hadn't let the cat out of the bag yet).
It was very difficult for me--especially since I work with children. I actually ended up canceling my last client and coming home early, which is how I'm now logged onto this forum! strange how life works, isn't it? here i sit in tears and i just read your post...
anyway, the one client i did tell said "oh yeah...i had a miscarriage. they are really very common." no compassion whatsoever. this is why i decided not to tell anyone else what i was going through. and guess who is no longer my client....
anyway, good luck, mama. people suck, but you seem like a tough cookie! just remember that this is your loss and your time to cope with it, so don't let anyone else dictate how you're feeling or what you need right now.
DW married to DH expecting first baby in April 2012!