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Thystle 10-06-2012 02:53 AM

I will put in the poll to allow multiple answers incase of more than one baby mama/daddy.   

 

 

 

Ok whoops I forgot to check the multiple answers button. Sorry! Ok pick the most recent relationship resulting in kids that made you come and read in the single parents forum. winky.gif


zebra15 10-06-2012 10:33 AM

Never married the fool!  best decision I ever made


kay4 10-06-2012 03:49 PM

18 years


Thystle 10-07-2012 01:26 AM

Thats why I didn't say "married".  orngtongue.gif


Findingstrength 10-07-2012 05:44 AM

Wow, most of us were in long 10 year + relationships. For me every year it got harder to consider leaving. But some things happened that I could not stay and still respect myself as a person.

zebra15 10-08-2012 07:58 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Thystle View Post

Thats why I didn't say "married".  orngtongue.gif

I wouldn't call it a relationship either.  whistling.gif  It was a very temp. lack in judgement.


chefmommy 10-10-2012 03:01 PM

22 years:(


kythe 10-11-2012 06:58 PM

4 years, long enough to have 2 kids.  I've been a single mom now for 9 years - over twice as long as I was ever married in the first place.


KarenEMT 10-11-2012 10:23 PM

18 years.  Newly separated now.
 


tccandlsccmom 10-12-2012 12:15 PM

16 years.  2 years separated (we were not married, so just voided the powers of attorney, etc.).  And he regularly reminds me, by being such an a$$, why leaving him was the best decision I ever made for me and the kids.


Mama Soltera 10-13-2012 12:42 PM

Wow. I stayed far, far too long also. I know the longer I stayed, the worse it got, but it also got that much harder to get out of it. I can't even imagine how it might have been after 22 years. Good for you for knowing you still had a chance. hug.gif


Christine93 05-30-2014 03:22 PM

2 years. separated now.


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