DH and I are still legally married. We lived together in the same house until September 10, 2006. He worked. I stayed home with the 4 kids, with no income of my own.
As per our old accountant, we should file jointly and then split the return ourselves. DH suggested 50/50 split which I flat out rejected. He is currently working, supporting only himself. He has not sent regular CS since the separation. Nothing since Thanksgiving.
DH needs our youngest's SS# to file, which I have. It is holding everything up. I need to decide what to do.
I am NOT comfortable with a return check being electronically deposited into an account that only has HIS name on it, which it has in the past. I am not on the account we used as a joint account because he screwed up my credit passing bad checks in 2003 on a joint account and I was placed on the CheckSystem... yet his credit is just honkey dorey.
: But that is a rant for another time.
I am still walking on eggshells here in NC since I don't want to anger him to the point where he files for custody in NY and compells the kids and I back
there. Only 2 more months until I can files here.
Anyone have any suggestions as to how to handle this?