Well, you need a girlfriend first
Some women would be willing to raise a child with an autistic parent and some would not.
In the meantime - do you volunteer with kids? It may be something to consider. There are lots of ways to be involved in the life of children, meaningful ways, without being a biological parent (for the record: I am not saying you should not become a biological parents - just saying this is something you can do now).
Namaste - you sound very cool.
You could consider posting on the special needs board.
There is a battle of two wolves inside us. One is good and the other is evil. The wolf that wins is the one you feed.
Book and herb loving mama to 2 teens and one young adult.