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#1 of 2 Old 06-18-2002, 03:39 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I'm so, so sorry to hear about Bill. And anger is such a part of grief, especially IMHO, when it comes to suicide. My 1st dh took his life also. I still go through periods of anger, deep grief & loss, etc.

What helped me in my case, was just family/friends being there for me. To listen~at the beginning, at the 1 mo. anniversery, his birthday, Christmas, etc. Acknowledge her, her grief and even Bill. She is probably on a rollercoaster ride of emotions. It also helped me that people weren't afraid of me, my grief and emotions.

You are a dear friend to be thinking of her. If you have any, any other questions, please feel free to pm me too.

Warmly~

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