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  1. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    A new year, a new thread. Lets all introduce ourselves, and give a little update. Grads are welcome too. I am L, mama to Lilly who is my biological daughter. She will be 5 in a couple months. My husband and I wanted to have more children but my health issues made that difficult. I am healthy...
  2. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Update on page 3 I guess our license went through, because we Got The Call. The placement didn't sound permanent, but it met all of our criteria for possible permanence (age, gender, history) so we decided to go for it and see how things developed. His name is J. The CPS worker is on-scene...
  3. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    I am not exactly the scrapbooking type, but would like to have some sort of baby book equivilant for my dd. I didn't document things like first smiles, words, walking, etc with my 2nd dd and now that she is older and asks me I wish I had. So I dont want to make the same mistake with baby dd...
  4. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    I'm looking for some help here. A little background: I used to be a middle school teacher in the inner-city. I still keep in touch with some of my students. One in particular me and my family have taken care of over the last 5 years. She has spent weekends with us back when we lived in the...
  5. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    My daughter's adoption finalized in November and I thought that we'd had all the "firsts" covered. We haven't had a social services home visit since late summer and I'd kind of forgotten about those. LOL. My licensing social worker transferred to a different position and I just got a call from...
  6. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    I posted this over in the baby forum as well: http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/thread/1303727/looking-for-support-parenting-a-fussy-baby# basically, baby has been home 10 days and is miserable :( I am really worried that something might be wrong....
  7. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Here is the really long post in SN http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/thread/1303888/talk-to-me-about-neuropsych-evals-and-the-almost-4yo-long#post_16331924 ETA; Just realized that I didn't specifically mention that this is with Isaac (DS3). Oops--very tired! The short version is that...
  8. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Just wanted to share, our homestudy is finally done, after 6 1/2 months! It's been 11 months since we started our training classes and paperwork, we did a LOT of waiting on our busy social worker, definitely took longer then we were expecting but there was joy in the waiting. We are even more...
  9. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Our family is starting to get ready for our finalizations (I seriously didn't know if it would ever happen, so YAY!!!). It's not actually scheduled yet but will be soon, we expect. DH and I would love to mark the day each year as "adoption day." Or some other name, that's still up for debate...
  10. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    For those of you who (like me) have not quite gotten around to taxes yet. Here is a simple video with a strange narrator on the tax credit. Looks pretty easy, gonna try to do my own taxes..... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQryETwRziA&feature=feedf
  11. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    We were asked by friends to adopt their newborn, and she will be moving in any day. We are proceeding with getting set up for a home study through CSS, and I have a question regarding an issue in our house. The previous owners built it with one official bedroom, but set up the extra living room...
  12. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    I'm hoping to get some advice about how to respond to our 8 year old DD. She has lived with us for 2.5 years through a fairly informal arrangement with her birth mother, who is my sister. The adults (incl. birth dad) finally got everything squared away for her permanency plan and they signed...
  13. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Tonight, we find out if we will start the process for adopting an infant.This is a private open adoption through friends.Baby is 2 weeks old. Can anyone give me practicla advise on inducing laction as naturally as possible?
  14. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    I felt like with DD adopted last year, I had so much sympathy and compassion for her birth mom. I genuinely grieved that she couldn't take care of DD. This was a case of not being able to parent, I feel through no fault of her own. Now fast forward to our current foster daughter and her mom...
  15. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    I posted an update and a link to my blog last month and then crazy happened and I had to move it. New blog is www.lastmom.blogspot.com. My girl is 10 and our one year anniversary of her moving in is coming up in May. We got the best surprise in the mail from the state of Texas not too long...
  16. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Just wanted to move the conversation about abuse allegations and foster care away from the old thread, since it was a topic shift. Some have said that abuse allegations are overblown or that they can be dealt with by keeping as anonymous as possible. The fear is often that the bio parents will...
  17. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Today the social worker met with the expectant parents we've been speaking with. The birth father signed the unborn surrender form and we finally got confirmation of the pregnancy. I will be signing all our paperwork tomorrow and we'll begin financial assistance. She's due with a girl at the...
  18. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    I am strongly considering foster parenting ever since I had a Pre-Pregnancy Consultation that said that I would be considered high-risk to have a child of my own, due to medical problems. Even though I want my own biological child, several of my relatives and people at church are wanting me to...
  19. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Hello. I am new to this board and am from North Carolina. We adopted an older child about 5 years ago and had a signed adoption assistance agreement. By federal law, the adoption assistance agreement is considered a contract which can only be amended if both parties agree. When we adopted our...
  20. Adoptive and Foster Parenting
    Hello, I was typing this out and accidentally hit something that erased everything, but i apologize if this comes through twice. I'm starting over now... We adopted a little girl from Ethiopia 11 months ago. She is now 19 months old. She has always been food obsessed. We have still made no...
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