I am TTC now and I need to know about ultrasounds and Pre-e.
My due dates were always right. *Their* due dates weren't.
With my 1st, I didn't have a u/s until 19 weeks. He came right on time for me, but they listed him as 37 weeks (8lbs 7 1/2 oz!!
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2nd was induced b/c of Pre-e on my 39 week, *their* 37 week date (7lbs 13 1/2 oz).
I didn't know if I should consent to their first trimester u/s because then it will lock me into a date. I will know when I get pregnant just like always, so their dates might be wrong. But, if I wait to have one at 20 weeks, then I will still be locked into their dates which are always wrong for me, but I always have this one done. What can I say.. I always want a peek to know how many arms and legs we are dealing with and I'm too nosey to wait until the babe comes to find out the sex!
So, I hope that you guys can give me some pros and cons that I haven't thought of to decide if I should have the first one or not. I know that for their flashy little chart they will want the first one done, but then at 40 weeks I don't want to hear induction even mentioned so that I don't kill someone! But, if I wait until the 20 week one, then they might move the date to 2 or more weeks earlier than it is time. Ugh.. what to do? what to do? I know the baby will come when it is ready, so there won't be any agreements about induction of any sort!
Second question.. Eating a very high protein diet and exercising is how I avoid Pre-e again, right? I only had it with my last (different father) and I want to really get it into my head what needs to be done from the start! I will ovulate next weekend. I have been taking all of my vitamins, but I want to start eating protein right away so that I don't fall into the trap of Pre-e!!!
I'm pretty much just typing out loud, but I wanted to get your thoughts on the u/s for sure. I'm a Doula and afraid that I know a little too much!!
Thanks!
My due dates were always right. *Their* due dates weren't.
With my 1st, I didn't have a u/s until 19 weeks. He came right on time for me, but they listed him as 37 weeks (8lbs 7 1/2 oz!!

2nd was induced b/c of Pre-e on my 39 week, *their* 37 week date (7lbs 13 1/2 oz).
I didn't know if I should consent to their first trimester u/s because then it will lock me into a date. I will know when I get pregnant just like always, so their dates might be wrong. But, if I wait to have one at 20 weeks, then I will still be locked into their dates which are always wrong for me, but I always have this one done. What can I say.. I always want a peek to know how many arms and legs we are dealing with and I'm too nosey to wait until the babe comes to find out the sex!
So, I hope that you guys can give me some pros and cons that I haven't thought of to decide if I should have the first one or not. I know that for their flashy little chart they will want the first one done, but then at 40 weeks I don't want to hear induction even mentioned so that I don't kill someone! But, if I wait until the 20 week one, then they might move the date to 2 or more weeks earlier than it is time. Ugh.. what to do? what to do? I know the baby will come when it is ready, so there won't be any agreements about induction of any sort!

Second question.. Eating a very high protein diet and exercising is how I avoid Pre-e again, right? I only had it with my last (different father) and I want to really get it into my head what needs to be done from the start! I will ovulate next weekend. I have been taking all of my vitamins, but I want to start eating protein right away so that I don't fall into the trap of Pre-e!!!
I'm pretty much just typing out loud, but I wanted to get your thoughts on the u/s for sure. I'm a Doula and afraid that I know a little too much!!

Thanks!