Did anyone have a toddler that seemed to get the idea from everyone else that he/ she will be going to school soon and you had other plans? DS is 3.5 and really starting to talk about school and the school bus and all that jazz. We have lots of freinds his age, he is in a little ballet/tap class 45 min one day a week and it is pretty laid back, no uppity or rigid rules. I am really wanting to do a combination of homeschool/unschooling. How did you prepare your child for not going to a "school house" or elementary. I have no trouble telling everyone else to buzz off about homeschool but it does involve him! Would you change your mind if your kid wanted to go?