I'm a 46 year old sahm with a partner 12 years younger than I, and two boys 5 and 3 1/2. My partner's patience of little sex life has endured through pregnancies, nursing, and the family bed. Now the boys have had their own room for over a year but the paucity of sex hasn't changed. Taking care of two preschoolers all day wears me out! At the end of my day, I'm too pooped to pop! My partner's patience has run out. Any older moms out there with advice for reviving the over 40 sex drive?