My name is Beth, I'm a first time mom and I'm 30 weeks pregnant. My problem is, I don't look it. I was a heavier girl to begin with but I look on as all these other women look pregnant with their cute popped bellies, while mine looks like the 30 pounds I've gained; fat. The only time I look remotely pregnant is when I wear maternity clothes that somewhat smooth my stomach. My boyfriend doesn't see where I'm self conscious and tries to reassure me everyday I look pregnant. But the purpose is defeated when I'm at work and make reference to being pregnant and people look at me like I have two heads when I say, I'm 7 months pregnant.