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OB appointment today. I'm starting to swell and spill some protein. Blech.<br><br>
But anyway. This turned into a bit of a rant <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"> So it's a normal appointment, blah blah blah until they show me to the room and the nurse is like "undress from the waist down, we're doing the Group B strep test today". I was totally blindsided, I thought they did it at 36 weeks, so Keith and I hadn't even talked about it for weeks. But, I've been planning on refusing it all along because this baby isn't going to be even seeing my vagina at any point and so therefore the risk is minimum to nil. So, I go, "Oh, I'm waiving that". And the nurse ARGUES WITH US!!! She was like "well, you can't do that, the pediatricians want it" Keith is like, "um, yes we can, and if the pediatrician has a problem with it we'll take it up with him". She finally huffed something like "well I'll let Dr. S argue with you" and walked away.<br><br>
Erm. Ok. I was so not in the mood for confrontation. So now I'm all nervous about seeing the OB. He finally comes in and is all chatty and doesn't even bring it up until halfway through. And then, when he does bring it up, he's basically like, "well, it's totally within your right to not consent". I mean, obviously, he's not in support of me refusing it, but as he put it, it's his job to inform me of the risks and benefits and my job to make a decision. And I made a decision. And funny, he didn't argue with us about it at all. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue"><br><br>
Not that it really matters. Even if I was positive, in planned c/s when the water doesn't break beforehand, they don't do the antibiotics anyway. And even the doctor admitted that the chance of my water breaking before February 11th is almost nil. Hehe.<br><br>
I swear though, what is it with the nurse thinking that I'll just undress on command and getting upset when I don't agree? It's going to blow their minds when I refuse vaginal exams to check my "progress" at 36/37/38 weeks. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/eyesroll.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="roll"> And the way she looked at us felt like she was classifying us under the "stupid" catagory. Keith later told me it was the same look he gets from customers who inform him he's too young to be a manager.<br><br>
Gotta love OB offices...heh. I'm currently envious of all of you homebirthing and UCing mamas <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"> I really like my OB, probably the best doctor I've ever had, but man that nurse annoyed me today <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">:
But anyway. This turned into a bit of a rant <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"> So it's a normal appointment, blah blah blah until they show me to the room and the nurse is like "undress from the waist down, we're doing the Group B strep test today". I was totally blindsided, I thought they did it at 36 weeks, so Keith and I hadn't even talked about it for weeks. But, I've been planning on refusing it all along because this baby isn't going to be even seeing my vagina at any point and so therefore the risk is minimum to nil. So, I go, "Oh, I'm waiving that". And the nurse ARGUES WITH US!!! She was like "well, you can't do that, the pediatricians want it" Keith is like, "um, yes we can, and if the pediatrician has a problem with it we'll take it up with him". She finally huffed something like "well I'll let Dr. S argue with you" and walked away.<br><br>
Erm. Ok. I was so not in the mood for confrontation. So now I'm all nervous about seeing the OB. He finally comes in and is all chatty and doesn't even bring it up until halfway through. And then, when he does bring it up, he's basically like, "well, it's totally within your right to not consent". I mean, obviously, he's not in support of me refusing it, but as he put it, it's his job to inform me of the risks and benefits and my job to make a decision. And I made a decision. And funny, he didn't argue with us about it at all. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue"><br><br>
Not that it really matters. Even if I was positive, in planned c/s when the water doesn't break beforehand, they don't do the antibiotics anyway. And even the doctor admitted that the chance of my water breaking before February 11th is almost nil. Hehe.<br><br>
I swear though, what is it with the nurse thinking that I'll just undress on command and getting upset when I don't agree? It's going to blow their minds when I refuse vaginal exams to check my "progress" at 36/37/38 weeks. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/eyesroll.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="roll"> And the way she looked at us felt like she was classifying us under the "stupid" catagory. Keith later told me it was the same look he gets from customers who inform him he's too young to be a manager.<br><br>
Gotta love OB offices...heh. I'm currently envious of all of you homebirthing and UCing mamas <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"> I really like my OB, probably the best doctor I've ever had, but man that nurse annoyed me today <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">: