I need some advice from adoptive parents. I have a very close friend who is about to adopt a newborn (due any day). They have been trying to have a baby or adopt for the last 5 years and are overjoyed..as am I. The only thing is that the biological father has requested that the baby be circ'd so he will "look like him". I know my friend does not want to circ...but she also does not want to "rock the boat" as the parents have a grace period in which they can change their minds about giving their son up for adoption. They are covered by Medicaid and in the state they are in circ is covered. Does anyone have any advice for ways they may be able to approach the bio parents in a respectful way letting them know they don't want to circ?