Dh is talking about number two and I am NOT even thinking like that yet. DS is 15 monthes and still wakes up 6 times a night on average. We still cosleep and nurse, ALOT. He is a VERY demanding child I don't think it would be fair to him to think about number two yet. I think when he is four or five, when he has his own things going and is not SO dependant on me. What age difference worked,/works well for you. Somedays I think, it wouldn't be to bad but then reality hits and the thought terrifies me. I had a dream the other night and I jsut woke up bawling!! In my dream I was pregnant, my husband that I had had a terrifing nightmare, little did he know how much it was to me! THanks for the help mamas!