In search of a suitable all in one. My babies are usually 8-9lbs at birth and 20lbs with big thighs and tummies at 4 months. I am absolutely in LOVE with BumGenius dipes, but after reading reviews am wondering if they'll work out? My two yr old is thirty lbs. So cute, roly poly babies, what do I use? I tried bumkins and kissaluvs, fuzzibunz with my last dd and she grew out of them fast, they leaked alot up her shirts (bumkins esp). what is there out there that is easy (AIO) and good for chunky babes (no red marks on thighs, etc).? Thanks! I really want to make this work this time around.