I'm the OP from the other thread and this is what I've decided to do. I'm going to have Jake rfing on the plane (he'll be 2 yrs old next month btw so I'm sure I'll get some weird looks lol). I'm buying this tray: http://www.onestepahead.com/product/86220/61/117.html I figure this way he can color, eat, etc, but also will be nice and comfy and can sleep as well. This tray should NOT be used in the car though just so you know since it's an aftermarket product. I won't put the tray on until we're at cruising altitude and, well, if we have a head on collision at 40,000 feet I don't think that tray is going to make much difference
I'm not sure if you still have your child rfing in the car or not but I found this article that may be helpful: http://www.cpsafety.com/articles/airplaneRF.aspx
I think the concern with a 2 yr old using the lap belt would be that during turbulance she may slip right out of the belt and onto the ceiling.

I'm not sure if you still have your child rfing in the car or not but I found this article that may be helpful: http://www.cpsafety.com/articles/airplaneRF.aspx
I think the concern with a 2 yr old using the lap belt would be that during turbulance she may slip right out of the belt and onto the ceiling.