Not sure where to post this. I refuse to clean up the dinner table after dh and ds. I consider the kitchen counter fair play for anyone to clean, but it is mostly me. All they have to do is bring the plates to the counter, ideally into the dishwasher, but I don't expect miracles. I wouldn't mind cleaning up after ds, he is 4, but I don't want him to end up being like dh when he is older, in terms of cleaning. So basically we eat on a dirty table every night, and they don't care. Anyway, am I a bad wife / mom? Should I just suck it up and clean?