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totally freaked out that we have started having babies already?<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/duck.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Duck">: everytime I see an announcement I get happy then freaked out. I cant seem to get my head on strait<br>
can you guys help me come up with some affirmations or something. any ideas?
 

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I won't deny I've had a couple anxiety attacks...vbacing at home causes enough anxiety for me plus I get freaked out easily. And the house isn't ready yet. Been coming up with some affirmations and I think it helps. I need to keep my eye on the prize. A wonderful baby to love! I'm strong and I'm gonna do this! What are you worried about specifically?
 

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It's exciting, and, yes, scary!! Especially because the babies being born are due AFTER mine!<br><br>
But we'll all have our babies when they're ready. It IS helping me get things ready more, although the one thing I haven't done, and don't really want to do, is decide what to pack for the hospital. I'm kind of making piles of stuff here and there, but I can't bring everything.<br><br>
"The baby will come when it's ready, and I'll be ready too."
 

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i like this!
 

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When I see people due weeks before me having babies, I am okay. When I see people who are exactly as far along as me having babies, I freak a bit!
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">I won't deny I've had a couple anxiety attacks...vbacing at home causes enough anxiety for me plus I get freaked out easily. And the house isn't ready yet. Been coming up with some affirmations and I think it helps. I need to keep my eye on the prize. A wonderful baby to love! I'm strong and I'm gonna do this! What are you worried about specifically?</div>
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i just dont feel ready. I feel like im not in control in my head. Im scared because I know once it starts there is no stopping it until it's done. I feel terribly unsupported right now. DH is wonderful. my mother cant seem to see past herself to understand she has a daughter who is very pregnant with three kids and could use help. my "best" friend railed at me the other day when I told her that the idea of a UC wasnt so bad, really . she flipped and used the dead baby card and everything. its going to be hard having her there when I give birth but she is litterally the ONLY friend I have. I have no real life friends, im so isolated and its really hard to empower myself when I have everyone around me that doesnt want to be supportive. simple favors from my own mother are met with such issue it isnt even worth it. I guess that is the biggest part of my fear. so now im just rambling on and on... and on..........and
 

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