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For those of you who have been there. I recently had an unplanned c/s after a planned homebirth. After laboring here at home for some time (quite happy and content) I was transferred to the hospital (with chaos and upheaval ensuing). I was told about a week after the birth that I had a choice at the time (info that would have been helpful when there was still a decision to be made, not a week after the fact). Strange how some things escape you when you are under that kind of stress: Anyhow, I find myself to be angry still with the people who were there with me and supposed to be protecting and taking care of me and the whole situation in general and what it means for future pregnancies. How long does it take to process and totally get rid of the anger and be able to move forward (as others around me no doubt think I should already have done).