Well, I can't respond to all of your questions, but I can tell you a little about my own experience. I had been charting temps only since May 2003, which showed (using the TCOYF method) that I only ovulated about 3-4 times a year. In April '04 we had an ectopic pregnancy, and after that, I ended up at a reproductive endocrinologist (fertility doc). The first month (August 04) was the clomid challenge, as well as an hsg (ouch) and lots of other bloodwork. The clomid challenge is for measuring ovarian function, and is used esp. in woman with compromised ovarian function. There's a pretty good description of the side effects of clomid on the infertility thread that you can read.
That first month, I got very bloated on the clomid, plus I was very anxious b/c it was the only cycle to be paid for by my insurance. I was way emotional, feeling like it was our only chance. Needless to say, we didn't conceive. I decided then that I had to step away and learn more about my health and PCOS before continuing. So, I did that, and then in April I was ready. I have been taking clomid now for 3 months. The side effects have deepened - esp. visual "disturbances". We are hoping this month that we'll develop more than one follicle.
Anyway, 6 mo of trying without success is the standard for stepping in with women over 35. Just b/c she's having the testing done now doesn't mean that she can't make other choices afterward, but getting the info from that testing may be very important.
I hope this helps.
That first month, I got very bloated on the clomid, plus I was very anxious b/c it was the only cycle to be paid for by my insurance. I was way emotional, feeling like it was our only chance. Needless to say, we didn't conceive. I decided then that I had to step away and learn more about my health and PCOS before continuing. So, I did that, and then in April I was ready. I have been taking clomid now for 3 months. The side effects have deepened - esp. visual "disturbances". We are hoping this month that we'll develop more than one follicle.
Anyway, 6 mo of trying without success is the standard for stepping in with women over 35. Just b/c she's having the testing done now doesn't mean that she can't make other choices afterward, but getting the info from that testing may be very important.
I hope this helps.