I love my SIL dearly, but she really drives me crazy when it comes to ds. Like the other day... I asked her if she minded watching him just for a min while I went to the bathroom. Well I come back and she is changing his diaper and has powder EVERYWHERE. It was all over ds and all over the couch, and ds was coughing and surrounded by a huge cloud of powder! I freaked out and explained to her why that is a bad thing. Well he was also running a fever, so since the dipe was already off I decided to take him temp (rectally) and when I stuck the teeny tiny tip in his rectum she freaked out, covering her mouth, and ran out of the room in shock. Ds is not even making a peep. She went on and on about how I should take his temp under the arm. There are so many other incidents, but I don't have time to go in to them now, but to sum it up, she is totally clueless about babies. And she used to work at a daycare with babies!!!! Makes me really glad I'm a SAHM.