[MaryLang]

I had my first appointment today. And I should be 8wks, but the baby stopped growing at 6 and there is no heart beat. I somehow knew something was wrong. I wasn't as sick, and just had a feeling I can't explain. This is my 3rd loss, but the first time I got to see a baby in there. I have had no signs of anything wrong, just not very sick, I usually get HG. No bleeding, no nothing, so I'm hoping this happens on its own, so I don't need a D&C. I am almost relieved to know what I kinda already knew, and this process can begin and other chances can come along if its meant to be. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad">

 

[peacelovingmama]

Oh Mary, I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">

 

[KnittingTigers]

Oh, I'm so sorry. Please know that my thoughts are with you. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2">

 

[texaspeach]

I'm so sorry Mary. You're in my prayers.

 

[Astoria]

oh, this is just so sad, I'm really very sorry

 

[letniaLynne]

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[goldfinch]

Mary, I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2">

 

[treehugginhippie]

Oh I'm so sorry <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> You will be missed...

 

[Surfer Rosa]

<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"> Sorry to hear.

 

[Bella Catalina]

Mary, I am so sorry to hear that. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> Take care of yourself mama.

 

[PrayinFor12]

I'm very sorry Mary. I hate to hear it. It's good that your baby could be blessed to spend his time here with you.

 

[rach03]

I'm so very sorry for your loss, mama. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">

 

[sweetney]

So very sorry. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad">

 

[zonapellucida]

<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> mama sorry for your loss

 

[AKA_PI]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[TayTaysMama]

I am so sorry for your loss! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">

 

[meredyth0315]

Mary, I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Big hugs & many prayers to you <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">

 

[leobabe]

i'm very sorry for your loss. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">

 

[averymybaby]

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[diamond lil]

I am so sorry for your loss.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">